Snapshots & Whatnot: Humble Herons

On Saturday my brother and I zoomed down to Norfolk to visit the Norfolk Botanical Gardens, a glorious place for flower lovers (& tree huggers of all varieties.)

While there we took an hour-long boat ride through the canal system and out to Lake Whitehurst that borders the massive 175-acre Botanical Garden, the largest in the state of Virginia.

We saw all sorts of scenic views as we wound our way through the canals, but the beginning of our journey started out with a surprise visitor who saw us off with great aplomb just a few feet from the boat…

A blue heron, who hung out for a few clicks!

As our boat passed by this blue heron seemed comfortable standing tall, exuding a sense of confident humility. (Trying to work in a quote from church yesterday, so here goes…)

“Humility is a proper sense of self in a universe of wonders.”  Saint Benedict

Front and center, have a good look at me!

“If you’re searching for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.” Anonymous

Have a good look, I’m proud to be me but don’t take myself too seriously!

“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less.” C.S. Lewis

grace, peace & humble herons

Virginia : )

p.s. My heart and prayers are with the people of the Bahamas and everyone in the path of Hurricane Dorian. Be safe!!

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OVERCOMING (in movies & in life!)

If you are looking for an outing option this weekend, the movie “Overcomer” is now in theaters. Since I ran cross country in high school (& the 2 mile race for track & field) I marked this movie on the calendar not to be missed.

After watching “Overcomer” this week, wow! It truly is an inspiring experience: a story about running (lots of it) but also perseverance, faith and forgiveness (never an easy thing.) The story revolves around a high school coach who (under duress) starts a cross country team – with only one runner, Hannah Scott. The whole theater laughed and clapped at some parts, while moving bits elicited a few tears.

Here’s a trailer, if you’d like to catch a glimpse (email readers, you know the drill – link to Roses website to have a look-see.)

The other day I found a powerful little book (hidden among stacks of others) written by Max Lucado: “God Thinks You’re Wonderful!” After seeing an inscription inside from my precious Mama, I sat down for a few ticks to read it.

It reminded me of the struggle Hannah Scott faced in the movie, something that often challenges all of us: to believe that we are beloved of God, precious and valuable in God’s sight no matter where we’ve come from or whatever our hues (especially if our lives are playing the blues.)

“So promise me you’ll never forget… that you aren’t an accident or an incident… you are a gift to the world, a divine work of art, signed by God.”  Max Lucado

grace, peace & Overcoming inspiration

Virginia : )

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Brené Brown: Wild Heart Paradox(es)

Last month I happened upon Brené Brown’s Netflix special “The Call to Courage.” Inspired by her authentic sharing, I quickly found her Vulnerability TED talk on YouTube (the one filmed in Houston.) More inspiration wows. Then I delved into her books. Two weeks ago I finished reading “Braving the Wilderness” and now I’m in the middle of “Daring Greatly.”

If your courage muscles need a workout or a bit of extra motivation to wade through whatever challenges life is throwing at you (and our world) these days, I highly recommend Brené Brown’s books and videos (she is an amazing speaker!)

“The mark of a wild heart is living out the paradox of love in our lives. It’s the ability to be tough and tender, excited and scared, brave and afraid – all in the same moment… A wild heart can also straddle the tension of staying awake to the struggle of the world and fighting for justice and peace, while also cultivating its own moments of joy.” Brené Brown, from “Braving the Wilderness”

grace, peace & (courageous) wild hearts

Virginia : )

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New Horizons (quickie quote!)

Not sure about you, but sometimes at the beach this redhead likes hanging out near the shore (no rough surf, easy to navigate waves, quicker dash back to sandy shore!)

If we’re after new horizons, however, it might be time to let courageous wings in our hearts move us a bit further from what’s comfortable in the shores of our lives.

“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.” William Faulkner

grace, peace & new horizons

Virginia : )

photos: Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge, Assateague Island (VA)

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Snapshots & Whatnot: Mud Puddle Management

Years ago my brother met me in Cape Town for a visit to South Africa we’ll never forget.

We zoomed all around Cape Town and the Western Cape enjoying beautiful scenery, amazing people, yummy food and incredibly lovely wine.

One memorable day in Hermanus we saw over 30 whales!

We also had the opportunity to visit Groot Constantia, South Africa’s oldest winery (established 1685) and sample their lovely wine.

It’s an absolutely beautiful place, even on a cool rainy day.

In the parking lot we saw this duck wallowing in a mud puddle, even though beauty abounded all around.

Today I got to thinking, maybe we’re sometimes like this duck? Entrenched in mud, stuck. Making an occasional splash here and there, but with our beaks immersed in mud oblivious to the wonder of possibility around us.

We’re drinking mud puddle on the rocks when we could flap our way (just a few steps) to sip lovely wine.

Mud can be many things: stinkin’ thinkin’ that we’re just nothing nobodies, fears that trap us in mud because it’s what we know, failures that zap our try again momentum, or behavior and excess baggage we know has to go. Like, now!

“What we call despair is often only the painful eagerness of unfed hope.” George Elliot

Here’s the thing. In God’s eyes we are precious somebodies, worth something HUGE: Love, God’s love, the kind that helps us hope, helps us cope.

Why do we keep swallowing mud puddle on the rocks – “I’m not, I can’t deal with this, why bother trying” – instead of letting faith and God’s love feed our hope? Help us cope?

To accept the mud in our circumstances, but not wallow in it. To open ourselves to the wine of God’s love that’s here for us, in us, no matter how much mud we splatter. To look up from the mud and believe we are precious somebodies, valued and valuable.

We might flap around and falter a bit, but if we stop drinking mud puddle on the rocks and start savoring Love(ly) Wine we may find our way (with God’s help) through the mud into pastures green and fine.

“GOD lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. GOD set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along.”  (Psalm 40:2)

grace, peace & mud puddle management

Virginia : )

“May the wind under your wings bear you where the sun sails and the moon walks.” J.R. R. Tolkien

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Snapshots & Whatnot: Courage (the creative kind!)

Visiting the Eastern Shore of Virginia (the state, not to be confused with blogger Virginia, the person) we popped up to see the charming town of Berlin, MD. The side of the information center was a huge mural, filled with creative inspiration.

“Creativity takes courage.” Henri Matisse

“Music gives faith a body.”

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.”  Nelson Mandela

grace, peace & courageous creativity

Virginia : )

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Opening Our Eyes (a little wider!)

Quickie quotes and thoughts today. Sometimes we may want to bury our heads in the sand, ignoring all that’s going on around us.

Or, maybe we just keep our heads down without looking up.

“You’ll miss the best things if you keep your eyes shut.” Dr. Seuss

It’s not just keeping our eyes shut, but maybe we’ve shuttered our hearts as well.

We may never know what’s around us if we don’t open our eyes and hearts a little wider. Something (or someone) beautiful might be hiding in the marsh of our lives, like this snowy egret in the marsh of the Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge.

Sometimes like this young heron we may need to stand up to stand out where we are vs. always blending in.

Other times we may need to open the eyes of our hearts to see the beauty that lives inside us, the light of Love that beats for us, with us, in us – even when things are dark around us.

grace, peace & open hearts

Virginia : )

“Only in darkness can you see the stars.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

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Snapshots & Whatnot: Hope & Beauty

The rampant senseless violence in our whacked out world today overwhelms my heart. My prayers are with the people of El Paso, TX and Dayton, OH and everyone suffering from violence everywhere. As posted here recently (#LOVEFORVB Love for Va. Beach) it’s hard to know what to do when hate and violence decimate lives and communities.

Keep in mind that hope is a noun and a verb.

To hope and to bring hope to others.

“Ordinary acts of love and hope point to the extraordinary promise that every human life is of inestimable value.” Archbishop Desmond Tutu

“I don’t think of all the misery, but of the beauty that still remains.” Anne Frank

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all the darkness.” Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Hope is a verb that moves us (and others) toward the Light. Love is a verb that dissipates hate. Let’s keep hoping and sharing the kind of Love that enlightens the darkness of hate.

grace, peace & Hope

Virginia

“Love casts out fear.” Dorothy Day

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Books! Books! Favorite Books!!

As many of you know, Virginia likes books and reads piles of them (as posted here previously Books! Reading! Books! Reading!)

This week a friend tagged me on Facebook to post covers of 10 favorite books, so here’s my response in one blog post (vs. one-a-day on FB.) I have way too many favorites to narrow down to ten, but here are a few that are reread often, shared with others, and have left indelible bookmarks of hope and hilarity in my life.

#1: “The Lord of the Rings” by J.R.R. Tolkien

I have read Tolkien’s LOTR and “The Hobbit” once a year every year since 8th grade (many times!) To read how Tolkien’s books help cure my tireditis, click here.

#2: “Daily Strength for Daily Needs” Mary W. Tileston

This is an inspirational collection of daily quotes from Scripture, hymns and spiritual people through the ages. My tattered edition is falling apart, but I also have it on Kindle (a big thank you to the “community of volunteers” who make these out-of-print treasures available electronically.)

#3: “Memory” et all, Lois McMaster Bujold

I am a huge groupie of Lois McMaster Bujold’s Miles Vorkosigan’s books – brilliant, innovative, outer space fun. I have all of them on Kindle and have read most multiple times, especially the book Memory (re-read at least 10 times, including last week.)

#4: “Bread for the Journey” Henri Nouwen

I have read this daily devotional for many years. It was one of my first blogs here 8 years ago (click here to read about it.) Henri Nouwen’s other myriad books have also been a huge blessing in my life. (“The Return of the Prodigal Son” is another fav.)

#5: “How the Light Gets In” by Louise Penny

This is the first Chief Inspector Armand Gamache novel I read, and it’s still my favorite. Louise Penny writes brilliant mysteries set in the fictional Canadian village of Three Pines that are much more than whodunits, especially this one that continued to inspire me long after turning the last page. For Louise Penny groupies out there, the new Armand Gamache mystery, “A Better Man,” is coming out 27 August 2019!

#6: “Who Moved My Cheese?” Spencer Johnson, MD

I have given this short book many times to friends going through change, and have reread it often when facing all sorts of change in my life.

#7: “Tales of Sector General” et all, James White

Irish author James White wrote tales of splendor, wonder and mayhem at Sector General, a multi-species hospital located at the edge of space. I am a huge groupie and have read his books multiple times, especially “Code Blue Emergency” and “The Galactic Gourmet,” both packed with major doses of hilarity. (Check out one of my earliest blogs from 8 years ago : Cosmic Hilarity & The Galactic Gourmet.)

#8: “Calvin and Hobbes” by Bill Watterson

My tattered Calvin and Hobbes books toted to overseas postings continue to bring joy and lots of laughter no matter my whereabouts or older-age creep.

#9: “The Doomsday Book” by Connie Willis

I have read “The Doomsday Book” multiple times. It never gets old, although time travelers get stuck in the Middle Ages. 🙂 When it came out it won both the Hugo and Nebula awards, science fiction’s two highest honors. Connie Willis repeated that double honor with her books “Blackout/All Clear” wherein time travelers are stuck in England during World War II. I read them last year – instant favorites, absolutely brilliant!

#10: “Left to Tell” by Immaculée Ilibagiza

I have given away many copies of Immaculée’s courageous story of faith and forgiveness. (You can read my blog about it by clicking here: Left To Tell.)

#11: “The Moosewood Restaurant Favorites” The Moosewood Collective

Must include a cookbook! It’s hard to pick a favorite with hundreds of cookbooks stashed on shelves all over, but I have enjoyed my 10+ Moosewood cookbooks for more than 20+ years and use them all the time. My bucket list includes a trip one day to the Moosewood Restaurant in Ithaca, NY.

#12: “Redeeming Love” by Francine Rivers

My list is now over 10, but have to include this book. The first time I read “Redeeming Love” years ago, I ended up reading it twice in one day! At home sick in bed I started reading it in the morning and finished it in the afternoon (with a box of well-used tissues), then turned right around and started again. It is a powerful book about redemption, faith, forgiveness and love.

“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.” Dr. Suess

Another favorite book packed with wisdom, a gift from my sister to me after graduate  school. Here’s to books taking us places we’ve never been, teaching us things we don’t know, inspiring us, strengthening our imagination muscles, making us dream bigger dreams, and laugh, hope and cope as we turn the pages of our lives.

grace, peace & favorite books

Virginia : )

p.s. If you have a favorite book (or two) that you’ve read more than once, or shared more than once, please add them to this list in the comments.

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31 July: Ad Maiorem Dei Gloriam…

So that’s Latin. Since I (and maybe you) didn’t study Latin, here’s what it means:

“To the Greater Glory of God…”A noble motto from Saint Ignatius of Loyola whose feast day we celebrate 31 July (today!)

I am a groupie of Saint Ignatius (1491-1556), a Spanish noble who completely changed his life around after a mystical experience during convalescence from a serious battle wound. He subsequently devoted his life to Jesus and enlisted buddies to join him in a new way of living, thinking and doing. Approved by Pope Paul III in 1540, the fledgling Jesuit order founded universities and engaged in spiritual exercises to help them become the hands and feet of Jesus to those around them.

Notwithstanding a bit of turmoil along the way, the Jesuits and the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius have endured 475+ years. Today Jesuits continue to serve in many ways: educating students in universities and schools, assisting refugees, leading churches, facilitating spiritual growth (retreat centers, Spiritual Exercises workshops, books, podcasts), sharing faith in Jesus, and so much more.

silent retreat @ the Jesuit Center, Wernersville, PA

As we celebrate the life of Saint Ignatius of Loyola and Jesuits the world over (including Pope Francis) here are a few inspirational quotes from Saint Ignatius for our minds and hearts to munch on:

“Go forth and set the world on fire.”

“To give, and not to count the cost
to fight, and not to heed the wounds,
to toil, and not to seek for rest,
to labor, and not to ask for any reward,
save that of knowing that we do thy will.”

“Laugh and grow strong.”

“Speak little, listen much.”

 “He who goes about to reform the world must begin with himself, or he loses his labor.”

“Love is shown more in deeds than in words.”

“O Christ Jesus when all is darkness and we feel our weakness and helplessness, give us the sense of Your presence, Your love and Your strength. Help us to have perfect trust in Your protecting love and strengthening power, so that nothing may frighten or worry us. For, living close to You, we shall see Your hand, Your purpose, Your will through all things.” 

“He who carries God in his heart bears heaven with him wherever he goes.”

Saint Ignatius of Loyola

…Ad Maiorem Dei Gloriam…

grace, peace & God’s glory

Virginia : )

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