#LENT: Abounding Grace

Sometimes we get stuck spiritually in caves of comfort. Maybe they’re not comfortable, but we have grown accustomed to not risking our comfort zones with grandiose faith gestures.

Like this turtle @ the Va. Beach Aquarium, content to hang back from the light and the risk of getting close to the edge of things.

But that’s the thing about our faith. We are called to move out of our comfort zones with the Light of God’s love to lead us and the grace of God to help us.

“God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you, always, having all sufficiency in all things, may abound unto every good work.” (2 Corinthians 9:8)

My papa broke down this verse this way:

“God is able to make all grace (not just a little bit of grace), abound (not just trickle), toward you (not just Billy Graham, your pastor and missionaries, but toward you), that you (Paul repeats you for emphasis), always (not just sometimes), having all sufficiency (not just some sufficiency), in all things (not just some things), may abound (not just limp along), unto every good work (not just some good works.)”

Abounding grace, always, all sufficiency, all things, every good work – that should push us out of our comfort zones to do more for God!

Like this turtle basking in the light, ready to jump in the pond.

grace, peace & abounding grace

Virginia : )

“Earth is not a waiting room for Heaven, nor is this life about merely passing time before our true destination. Eternal life starts now when we glorify God by our words and deeds.” Father Daniel P. Horan

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International Women’s Day: A Photo Journey (#IWD2020, #EachforEqual)

As we commemorate International Women’s Day 2020, here is a post Virginia previously shared that is still relevant – especially for new readers of the blog!

Today we celebrate women and women’s rights as International Women’s Day highlights our progress and how to press for more gender equality amidst continued challenges around the world. As a globetrotting relief & development worker, I encountered many inspiring women of courage, creativity, ingenuity, faith and action. On this special day take a photo journey with me to celebrate international women (and how far we have come!!)

This favorite photo from Morogoro, Tanzania says it all: women multi-tasking myriad responsibilities on the way home from the office (children, groceries, and office supplies) – in heels, no less!

Grateful for all the women who paved the way for opportunities to work. In the movie ‘Pride & Prejudice’ set in 18th century England, Charlotte, one of Elizabeth Bennett’s closest friends married a pompous beanhead because that was her only opportunity. At 27 with no prospects and a burden on her family, she told Elizabeth: “I’m scared.”

Thank God times have changed and women have more career choices vs. marriage to pompous beanheads.

This photo, taken in the West Bank (Palestine), highlights the importance of education for girls – who become women.

Never take access to education for granted. It’s still a challenge in many places where girls miss the opportunity to go to school because they must tend livestock, fetch water (10 km away?) and often are married off very young. Education opens doors closed to those who can’t read. Grateful to tireless educators and advocators who open doors for girls to dream of a better future they can study and work for.

A trained health provider in Kagera, Tanzania, represents women in the medical field – doctors, scientists, nurses, technicians. Many women provide access to health care for communities in rural and urban areas.

Grateful for women who forged these opportunities and serve others tirelessly in the health sector. I’ve been blessed to interact with many committed women doctors, nurses, health care workers in the battle against HIV/AIDS and malaria (and much more.)

These busy business professors in Indonesia trained women’s micro-enterprise groups to understand their markets and develop viable products to support their families. By working together as a group, supporting each other, sounding-boarding ideas, facilitating the flow of start-up funds for the eventual success of each member, these ladies did an outstanding job equipping women for success in the marketplace.

Celebrating the success of women in business – access to markets, and opportunities for more women in corporate leadership roles.

These women in Turkana, Kenya, manage the water source for their villages. Elected, selected, and trained to do the job that serves their communities with the lifeline of water.

Celebrating women who serve their communities around the world, from grass roots organizers, volunteers, and managers of local resources to elected representatives, political party leaders, and Heads of State. May there be more opportunities for women leaders in years to come.

This nun serves God and her community in Uganda, selflessly maintaining a tradition begun hundreds of years ago to be the extended arms of the love of God to those in need. Thousands of women religious serve their countries and communities in so many ways – running schools, universities, clinics, hospitals, retreat centers, and relief programs.

Celebrating the continued impact of these dedicated women and those from many different traditions who lead and guide their communities to ‘keep the faith.’ Whether that’s writing, pastoring, deaconing, eldering, mentoring, teaching, volunteering, and serving others – as ‘builders of faith, love and understanding.’

This photo (taken on a moving train in Thailand with the wind blowing through the open window) made me wonder what sacrifices this grandmother made for her granddaughter?  As we celebrate new opportunities, let us never forget the women who sacrificed so much to let us be who we are (and can be) today.

Grateful for older women in our midst who are treasure troves of experience, advice and love.  Let us honor them and celebrate their lives.

This photo represents women who have survived war and conflicts, those who continue to suffer as victims of violence around the world, and those who help them, like Mirlinda pictured here in the rubble of the Kosovo conflict.

As we celebrate how far we have come, we still have far to go fighting violence against women, domestic abuse, harassment, and all that denigrates women into objects vs. our status as beloved daughters of our Heavenly Creator. Grateful for courageous women around the world who continue the battle for justice, awareness and support for victims to speak out and be heard, to break out of repressive systems, and overcome oppressive relationships.

To conclude our International Women’s Day journey, here’s one of my favorite all-time photos taken in Tanzania to celebrate mothers, happy mothers.  What a responsibility and what a gift of sacrifice to bring little beings into existence and form them into People.

On this special day as many women juggle careers, husbands, partners, and children while others devote their all to mothering (and managing their homes) we celebrate the gift of Motherhood (thanking our moms for being all they could, and would, and did!)

grace, peace & gender equality

Virginia : )

“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.  You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.  ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~

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Missing My Papa (still!!)

Tomorrow, 08 March, is the memorial of my precious Papa’s passing. Although it has been a few years, I still miss him (so much!) And Mama (so much!) The two of them left a huge legacy of love with me, our family, and so many others.

Today, here’s a poem in honor of Papa…

Lives of great men all remind us
        We can make our lives sublime,
    And, departing, leave behind us
        Footprints on the sands of time…

Footprints, that perhaps another,
        Sailing o’er life’s solemn main,
    A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
        Seeing, shall take heart again.

    Let us, then, be up and doing,
        With a heart for any fate;
    Still achieving, still pursuing,
        Learn to labor and to wait.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

WE MISS YOU PAPA!!

grace, peace & footprints of faith

Virginia : )

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13)

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#LENT: A Prayer for Friday

Here’s an ancient Celtic prayer on this Lenten Friday to contemplate…

Lord Jesus Christ

“You are the peace of all things calm.
You are the place to hide from harm.
You are the light that shines in dark.
You are the heart’s eternal spark.
You are the door that’s open wide.
You are the guest who waits inside.
You are the stranger at the door.
You are the calling of the poor.
You are my Lord and with me still.
You are my love, keep me from ill.
You are the light, the truth, the way.
You are my Savior this very day.”

(Celtic Traditional Prayer)

grace, peace & prayer

Virginia : )

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#LENT: (a little) Holy Hilarity

“As soap is to the body, so laughter is to the soul.” Jewish Proverb

During Lent we often focus on the solemn and somber. Ashes, fasting, and abstinence deepen our somberness (especially if low blood sugar is an issue, like with me!)

It’s also tough looking around these days when there’s so much out there to frighten us. Not just human trafficking, wars and violence, but also outbreaks of freaky viruses.

As faithful readers know, Virginia worked overseas for a number of years in conflict zones and places where health challenges abounded (malaria, HIV/AIDS et all.) Just about every day I asked God for the gift of Holy Hilarity.

I lifted that prayer request from Carolyn Williams, a lovely lady from Montana. We worked together on a big event in Washington, D.C., that involved piles of stress. She often prayed, “God, please give us the gift of Holy Hilarity as we do our all for You today.”

That stuck with me, because I think laughter is a gift that helps us rise above so much.

Shadows on the boardwalk (Va. Beach)

Years ago in university I wrote a research paper about freedom, using laughter as an example of how people rise above challenging circumstances. Specifically, how my papa laughed (and made others like me laugh) not letting the constraints of a crippling disease and wheelchair bind his spirit.

Overseas God answered my prayers for Holy Hilarity many times, respites of joy in nerve wracking situations. While doing the caregiving gig later here for my parents, God also blessed us with many occasions of hilarity. (It helps that my papa had a quirky sense of humor and my brothers pun it up regularly.)

So today, consider asking God for the gift of Holy Hilarity.

“Blessed are you who laugh now, because you can bring the joy of Christ to others, to those whose days are woven of tears… Laughter means that you let go – let go of all that shackles you to yesterday, to dead hopes, imprisons you in your small selves. Blessed are you, because you are free.” Father Walter J. Burghardt, SJ (1914-2008)

Friendly shadows on the boardwalk (Va. Beach)

grace, peace & Holy Hilarity

Virginia : )

p.s. Photos taken last week in Va. Beach whilst celebrating my brother Dwight’s birthday. (Dwight’s ‘friendly’ shadow made Virginia laugh a goodly amount!)

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#LENT: Tears, Tears & Rainbows (of Healing Grace)

“Crying is all right in its own way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and then you have to decide what to do.” C.S. Lewis

Reading this quote a week or so ago made me pause, then scramble to jot it down.

Sometimes tears engulf our hearts, especially if we have lost loved ones.

Trampled hearts, dashed dreams, failures, and other disappointments in our lives can also make us cry.

Often a few tears may trickle out (watching a sad movie? reading a touching book?) Other times copious sobs shake us to our core.

I have written about tears before (click here to read: The Gift of Tears.) But this quote of C.S. Lewis (who knew grief intimately after losing his wife, Joy) is a call to dry our eyes, take stock, and keep on going.

We might bumble along a bit at first, tissues in hand. But, if we place our hurting hearts in God’s hands, God’s everlasting love is here to comfort and carry us (as needed.)

Wherever we are in our journey of tears, God is with us, ready to pour out rainbows of healing grace in our hearts. All we have to do is ask.

“The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears.”  Native American proverb

grace, peace & rainbows of healing grace

Virginia : )

Photos: Niagara Falls (Canada side)

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#LENT : Changes, Chances, Hope vs. Fear(s)

Sometimes when change is on the horizon, our hearts clam up with fears of all shapes and sizes. Our forward momentum grinds to a halt as we take a fear inventory instead of looking at things with the joy of possibility.

Worry also swallows the joy of possibility. Why pray when you can worry? (or is it, why worry when you can pray?) Whatever the case may be, when challenges abound this quote from Saint Francis de Sales has been a great comfort to me.

“Do not look forward to the changes and chances of this life in fear; rather look to them with full hope that, as they arise, God, whose you are, will deliver you out of them.  He has kept you hitherto – do you but hold fast to His dear hand, and He will lead you safely through all things; and, when you cannot stand, He will bear you in His arms. Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow: the same everlasting Father who cares for you today, will take care of you tomorrow, and every day. Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace then, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations.”   Saint Francis de Sales

grace, peace & HOPE

Virginia : )

Photos: The Grand Canyon, AZ

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#LENT : A Prayer for Monday(s)

Monday is not always our favorite day of the week. Trudge, sludge, finding our way back into weekday grooves after the weekend.

We may need a little extra Heavenly Help. Today here’s a prayer from one of my favorite spiritual writers, Charles H. Spurgeon:

“Lord, help me to glorify You; I am poor, help me to glorify You by contentment; I am sick, help me to give You honour by patience; I have talents, help me to extol You by spending them for You; I have time, Lord, help me to redeem it, that I may serve You; I have a heart to feel, Lord, let that heart feel no love but Yours, and glow with no flame but affection for You; I have a head to think, Lord, help me to think of You and for You;

You have put me in this world for something, Lord, show me what that is, and help me to work out my life-purpose: I cannot do much, but as the widow put in her two mites, which were all her living, so, Lord, I cast my time and eternity too into Your treasury; I am all Thine; take me, and enable me to glorify You now, in all that I say, in all that I do, and with all that I have.”

grace, peace & Monday prayers

Virginia : )

Photos: Chincoteague National Wildlife Reserve, VA

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#LENT : A SONG FOR SUNDAY

The other night Virginia blasted her Andrea Bocelli playlist in the kitchen while making an Italian extravaganza pasta casserole (a major production, like lasagna.) Methinks Andrea’s incredible voice and music somehow made the food taste better. (At the very least, the cook felt inspired!)

The tomato sauce preparation and casserole assembly kept getting interrupted when Virginia kept hitting replay for the song, “Gloria The Gift of Life” from Andrea Bocelli’s recent “Si” compilation.

Here’s a YouTube version to have a listen. (Email readers you know the drill. Click to the Roses website to have a go at it.)

“For the gift of life, for the air we breathe, for the tears we cry… I raise my voice to sing: GLORIA, GLORIA, GLORIA, GLORIA!!!!”

“Saint Augustine said that ‘he who sings prays twice.’ It is my hope that the music on this album will offer listeners the good company of a good tune to follow, but also that it may be a chance to pray together. Good music can teach us about beauty and fellowship, and can open up our hearts and minds to higher thoughts.” Andrea Bocelli (liner notes, ‘Si’)

grace, peace & glorious songs

Virginia : )

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#LENT: Scepters (vs. Practical Tools)

On this Lenten Saturday here’s a favorite quote from Saint Bernard of Clairvaux, the famous Cistercian who reformed the Benedictine monastic order in the Middle Ages. Saint Bernard of Clairvaux came from the highest nobility in his region of France. When he decided to join a Cistercian monastery, his testimony inspired 30 other French noblemen (friends and family) to join up, too.

“Learn the lesson that, if you are to do the work of a prophet, what you need is not a scepter but a hoe.” Saint Bernard of Clairvaux

We all have different toolkits (very few come with scepters these days.) Sometimes, however, we may think “someone else will do that” when we need to just roll up our sleeves, grab a hoe, and get busy.

grace, peace & busy toolkits

Virginia : )

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