A Friday Birthday in #LENT

Today is my brother Dwight’s birthday. Since he is my younger brother (by 18 months) his age shall not be disclosed. Let’s just say he is – a year older than last year!

Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello (Charlottesville, VA)

Two years ago we spent a few days in Charlottesville celebrating his birthday. Enjoying a huge piece of cake while visiting Monticello I completely forgot it was a Friday in Lent until after the last crumb disappeared. (Since Virginia is a vegetarian, on Lenten Fridays of Abstinence she tries to dial in the treats to zero. Plus, she had given up sweets that year for Lent!??)

You can read all about that previous Lenten Friday fiasco by clicking here: Friday Failures: Cake! Cake! Cake!

As we celebrate today, I must needs remember: NO CAKE.

But, of course, Dwight can enjoy a big piece!

HaPpY BIRTHDAY DWIGHT!!

grace, peace & birthday treats

Virginia : )

“Birthdays are important. On our birthdays we celebrate being alive. We should never forget our birthdays or the birthdays of those who are close to us. They remind us that what is important is not what we do or accomplish, not what we have or who we know, but that we are, here and now. On birthdays let us be grateful for the gift of life.” Henri Nouwen,

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#Lent : Jesus The Teacher

Visiting Saint Catherine’s Monastery at the base of Mount Sinai in Egypt years ago, I encountered the icon of Jesus the Teacher, also called the Christ Pantocrater. One of the oldest icons in the world, the image on that ancient wall resonated mightily with me. I acquired a framed copy and put it on my office wall in the Middle East. It subsequently made the trek with me to Africa. Now it hangs on the wall here where I see it every day.

I like the faith reminder that we are meant to keep learning, that Jesus always has more to teach us, new things if we keep asking. Our faith is not a series of stagnant postulations, but an evolving journey of daily discovery (with heavenly Help!)

When I look at this icon it reminds me to pray: “Jesus Christ, teach me Your ways.”  Sometimes when my ways bump up against His ways later in the day I often add, “Please open my mind, heart, and spirit that I may know Your ways and DO THEM!”

As a wisdom groupie, I also like this icon as an affirmation of my daily (sometimes hourly) prayer: “Jesus Christ, please transform my heart, mind and spirit with Your wisdom.”

Listening closely to the icon, it’s also as if Jesus is saying:

“Study My words. Know My words. BE My words.”

grace, peace & inspired icons

     Virginia : )

“…Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32

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#LENT – Ash Wednesday Spiritual Blues-busters

And so it begins, Lent is here. It’s time to put away our chocolates, turn off the TV, hide coffee beans, sweets, and whatever else we’ve decided to give up for Lent.

My list is the same year after year: chocolate (very hard), wine (also hard), chips or ‘crisps’ in British-speak (very hard), coffee (not hard), meat (not hard since I’m a pro-vegetable vegetarian), and playing games on my iPad (should not be playing them anyway.)

Notice tea is not on the list, mainly to protect those around me. (Virginia without her tea is scary to contemplate.)

Some people give up Facebook, movies, favorite TV shows, desserts, or what what.

The harder it is to give something up for Lent, hopefully missing it (whatever it is) draws us closer to God? At least, that’s the general idea of giving up stuff.

Lent is also a chance to exert a bit of discipline to get our spiritual selves in shape.

Sometimes we allow spiritual sloppiness into our lives. Maybe we have skipped our quiet times a bit too often, missed our small faith group meetings several weeks and running, stopped going to Adoration, or even made excuses to forgo Sunday services.

Lent is an opportunity not just to give up things, but to get serious about our spiritual well being (with lots of God’s help.) Get to church more, show up to be with God in the mundane of our everyday mornings, open our hearts to more of what God is doing around us, and what God can do within us.

Lent is a time to look around, to reach a hand out to those in need. Getting in spiritual shape means looking up to God more and then looking around ablaze with God’s love for others. (In Virginia’s opinion, we should do that all year ‘round!)

We may have messed up. May have? How ‘bout we surely have messed up, since messing up is part of life. Lent is a chance to offer all that up to God, to seek forgiveness and then accept God’s forgiveness (that means forgiving ourselves, too.)

As we start our Lenten journey with ashes and fasting, may God open our hearts to Love, the sacrificial died-on-the-Cross-for-me kind of Love. The kind of Love that says to our spiritually sloppy selves, “Walk in the Light with Me, come where My dewdrops of mercy shine bright…”

grace, peace & dewdrops of mercy

Virginia : )

“We have fallen, but we will rise again. We are in darkness now, but God will give us Light.” Micah 7:8

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Pancakes! Pancakes! Pancakes!

“There is hardship in everything except eating pancakes.” Charles Spurgeon

Virginia’s blueberry buttermilk pancakes (yum!)

Shrove Tuesday is here, and that means?

Lent starts tomorrow.  Ashes, fasting, 40 days ‘til Easter…

But today, also called “Fat Tuesday,” it is okay to whoop it up with yummy eats whether we are doing Mardi Gras in New Orleans, finishing Fasching in Germany, celebrating the last day of Carnival in Rio, or slushing our way through yet another dreary winter day.

For some reason lots of folks eat pancakes today. Years ago my church in D.C. always had pancake suppers on Shrove Tuesday, a tradition begun in medieval times to empty out rich ingredients before the onset of Lenten fasting. My church in Williamsburg is having a big pancake supper tonight, but I am serving up blueberry pancakes here at home.

Virginia knows she is supposed to give up sugar for various health reasons. But today it’s one last pancake hurrah (along with finishing off her Valentines chocolate stash) before giving up sugar for Lent (and hopefully a long time thereafter.)

Speaking of pancakes…

“What’s the best pancake topping? More pancakes.”  🙂

“How do you make a pancake smile? Butter her up.”  🙂

Virginia’s blueberry pancakes (smiling!)

grace, peace & pancakes!

Virginia : )

p.s. Once again Virginia will attempt her post-a-day Lent gig with something inspirational, a photo, quote, song, book suggestion, or who knows what (she doesn’t know yet as these posts have yet to be written.) Many readers and friends come from myriad faith traditions, but I hope these Lenten posts will be conduits of understanding and hope. Welcome to all!

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gray skies (& sunshine) @ The Grand Canyon

“Gray skies are just clouds passing over.” Duke Ellington

gray skies @ the Grand Canyon

Glancing out the window the other morning I encountered a glorious sunrise. Waves of color filled the horizon before disappearing behind bleak winter clouds within a minute or two. No camera handy, but for the rest of that gloomy day the mental snapshot of morning beauty lifted my spirits.

Seeing that fleeting sunrise reminded me of a February winter visit to the Grand Canyon my brother and I made years ago. Three mornings in a row we got up at 4:30AM to catch the sunrise from different points around the Canyon where cars couldn’t go.

waiting for sunrise @ The Grand Canyon

On the bus that took us to the lookout points, the driver told us in summer thousands of people line each place to catch the sunrise, but where he dropped us off we were the only ones there.

sunrise @ The Grand Canyon

blue skies and more @ The Grand Canyon

more (cool looking) clouds @ The Grand Canyon

another sunrise view @ The Grand Canyon

My brother and I also made an effort to catch evening sunsets. Even in winter, viewing spots were packed with people.

final wisps of sunset @ the Grand Canyon

One evening after catching this last gasp of sunset we decided to wait for everyone to clear out and catch the next bus back to the lodge. I carefully packed my camera away, but five minutes later I quickly pulled it out when the skies erupted with incredible beauty.

glorious ‘after sunset sunset’ @ the Grand Canyon

We may not always see God’s heavenly paintbrushes at work when gray skies abound and things are getting dark around us, but if we look up from our insular lives every now and then we might encounter something unexpected and glorious, like a sunrise or this sunset.

“The Heavens declare the glory of God…” (Psalm 19:1)

grace, peace & glorious beauty

Virginia : )

“Creation is a miracle of daily recurrence. ‘A miracle a minute’ would not be a bad slogan for God.” George Bernard Shaw

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A Galactic Valentine Rose

HaPpY Valentine’s Day! Today doesn’t have to be about sweet tarts and mushy sentiment, but LOVE – the mystical, overwhelming amazing kind.

Like this Heavenly galactic rose….

A Rose made of Galaxies”  (Photo credit: NASA’s Hubble, 17 December 2010)

Here’s one of my favorite quotes about love posted here in one of my first blogs 8 1/2 years ago…

“Nothing is more practical than finding God, that is, in falling in love in a quite absolute, final way. What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination, will affect everything.  It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning, what you will do with your evenings, how you will spend your weekends, what you read, who you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude. Fall in love, stay in love, and it will decide everything.”   Pedro Arrupe, S.J.

HaPpY VALENTINE’S DAY!

grace, peace & LOVE

Virginia : )

“The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.” Helen Keller

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…the February flu blues…

Virginia has been off the blogosphere (and any-o-sphere) for a week with a bad case of the flu. Extreme chills, high fever, headache, body aches, and bad cough – evidently this flu is running rampant through our town.

So not fun, having the flu. My brother and I were meant to have a 4-day getaway over the weekend but had to cancel. Not just flu blues, but disappointment blues, too.

Misery loves company, so they say. My brother Dwight is now down with flu blues, too. Sniffling, shuffling by sis. Hack. Hack.

Whose germs, what and where? (Lysol spray deployed everywhere.)

Fortunately my February flu blues have softened a notch, petering their way out.

Enduring flu blues made me think of friends and dear ones fighting more serious challenges. Cancer. Terminal illnesses. Broken heart blues, broken life blues.

For some dear ones, medical blues and life blues won’t just peter out. A few may lessen for a short time, but cancer aches, body aches, heart and broken life aches are ever present.

‘Tis humbling, that. My flu blues heart asks God for healing graces for all of you suffering the blues wherever you are. May God give you enduring grace to face your blues with extra doses of peace, comfort and love.

grace, peace & flu blues

Virginia : )

“Pain and suffering are inevitable, but misery is optional.” Tim Hansel

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Persistent Love: A Flowery Perspective

Contemplating a quote today from Maya Angelou about the persistence of love…

Roses on a fence @ Butchart Gardens (Vancouver Island, CANADA)

“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” Maya Angelou

Persistent love jumps and leaps over fences and walls spreading hope around.

Roses @ Maymont Park (Richmond, Virginia)

But persistent love, the kind that lasts, is not a forever flowery endeavor. Sure, there may be flowery moments, but love can be challenging, especially when tough love is needed and necessary. (Tough love = persistent love with accountability muscles.)

A rose in the rubble (gravel, whatever) @ Norfolk Botanical Gardens

Persistent love keeps on growing, even amidst piles of rubble. Somehow persistent love finds a way (even if it’s not the way we were planning.) There may be loss and piles of heartache, but persistent love can (in time) rise above trampled heart hurts with healing and Hope (the capital ‘H’ kind.)

Hope bursting flowers @ Butchart Gardens

Here’s to persistent love, the kind that overcomes barriers of all shapes and sizes with courage, grace and the fragrance of Hope (and new beginnings!)

grace, peace & persistent Love

Virginia : )

p.s. If your hope needs a little help, here’s sage advice from Charles M. Schulz: “All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.”

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Fortune Cookie Wisdom

HaPpY Chinese New Year to friends celebrating around the globe!! To help commemorate the Lunar New Year here’s a little fortune cookie wisdom from one of our favorite Chinese takeaways (China Star in Norge, Virginia) we enjoyed last night…

“Faith is the bird that feels the light and sings while the dawn is still dark.”

“Faithless is he who quits when the road darkens.”

grace, peace & fortune cookie wisdom

Virginia : )

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Creative Extremists (FOR LOVE!)

 “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Today we celebrate the life of Martin Luther King, Jr., an extraordinary man who led a movement of change, who dreamed segregated Americans could become a ‘symphony of brotherhood’ working, praying and struggling together in peaceful equality. We commemorate his efforts and the thousands who rose up with him against injustice to let freedom ring in this country.

What a life. What a legacy from this man of faith, a preacher from a long line of preachers (his father, grandfather and great-grandfather), who found the courage to stand up against segregated injustice, violence and hatred.

“…even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream…”

In the face of seemingly insurmountable odds, Martin Luther King, Jr. kept on going, blazing a path of change through non-violence.

“Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred…We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.” 

Pray God that Martin Luther King, Jr.’s dreams will continue in these turbulent times, that hearts sweltering with injustice, oppression and hate will be transformed into fountains overflowing with freedom, justice and love.

A favorite book, The Autobiography of Martin Luther King, Jr. (edited by Clayborne Carson), combines his letters, writings, and speeches into a comprehensive portrait of his life. I highly recommend this book for a deeper look into his life that is inspiring and a valuable resource for fighting injustice wherever it may be found.

Martin Luther King, Jr.’s legacy is for all Americans and the world, regardless of race or creed. As a pastor, however, he often challenged the Christian establishment’s status quo. To look the other way or not get involved was not his way – or the way of Jesus Christ.

Take a few moments to read his  “Letter from a Birmingham Jail”  written to the clergy. See how relevant his applications are to the challenges of today:

“Was not Jesus an extremist for love: ‘Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.’ … Will we be extremists for hate or for love? Will we be extremists for the preservation of injustice or for the extension of justice? …

 Perhaps the South, the nation, and the world are in dire need of creative extremists.”  

All these years later, there’s still too much hate-filled rhetoric filling our airwaves, hallways and heart-waves. As we remember the legacy of this great civil rights activist, assassinated for his beliefs and dreams of equality, let’s ask ourselves, what kind of extremists are we?

How can we become creative extremists for Love? To extend justice to all, equally, through the prism of Love, stamping out the darkness of hate whenever and wherever it lurks in our neighborhoods, communities, cities, countries, and around our globe?

grace, peace & creative extremists (for LOVE!)

Virginia : )

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