Enjoying Sunshine (& dancing in the rain!)

After a few unseasonably warm winter days (sitting outside? for lunch?) there’s a cold front moving in to our area with storms bellowing behind. Okay, I’m taking a little license here to dramatize my quotes. Rain, just rain is on the way for the weekend here. (Cold rain, but rain it will be. Not snow as previously predicted.)

“If you spend your whole life waiting for the storm, you’ll never enjoy the sunshine.” Morris West

But, if the rains do come….

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.” Vivian Greene

grace, peace & (rainy weekend) dance grooves

Virginia : )

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Snapshots & Whatnot: Forever & Now

“Forever is composed of nows.” Emily Dickinson

This quickie quote deserves a bit of contemplation. Thinking about it, sometimes our dreams (hopes, wishes) seem like they will take forever. At times it seems like real change (the kind our world needs lots of right now) will take forever.

We may get stymied and think, “Why bother?” Forever seems like a long time to wait and work toward something bigger than us, especially when life’s gnarly branches bleak us down.

But, if we consider that the forever future is made up of nows – this present moment, the next one, and the next – it might help us do the next thing, and the next thing after that.

“Forever is composed of nows.” Emily Dickinson’s thought truly is a challenge, to engender hope to face the forever challenges in our lives (and world) one now at a time, one step at a time, one small change at a time.

grace, peace & nows of hope

Virginia : )

photos: Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge

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A Matter of Perspective

It’s a new year (and a new decade) so maybe it’s time to consider the matter of perspective, how we see things. Visiting Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden over the holidays I accidentally hit a button on my camera (now I know what it does) that took a rapid succession of pictures of the same tree – each with a different perspective.

Perspective is a matter of outlook that often is determined by our “in-look.” Sometimes we get so down on ourselves we let fear cloud our perspective. (Keep in mind fear tends to get ramped up by our insecurities.)

When fear and insecurities cloud our horizon, it’s hard to see things clearly. Our perspective wobbles with doubt and confusion.

At times our perspective is bleak when life is a bungled heap of mistakes and failures. We can let the bleakness of the heaps darken our perspective, or we can choose to change the lens of our perspective to learn from our mistakes and keep on going.

It takes courage to see things differently, to see possibilities and opportunities when change is on the horizon (or in the immediate now.)

It takes intentional courage to change our perspective, to recognize blessings amidst bleakness. To look through a lens of faith and hope that ousts our fear and insecurities.

Changing our perspective means changing our attitudes. Gratitude helps. Maybe life doesn’t feel like a blessing right now, but looking out through a lens of gratitude there’s often more to be thankful for than we realize until we take stock.

“Perfect love drives out fear…” It takes courage to open our hearts to Love, the kind that transforms perspectives to perceive roses blooming in the rubble of our lives.

“When we are riddled with fear just as the sun sets, Christ the Light of Heaven illuminates the night, calling us into the radiance of God’s presence… May the Morning Star inspire us to keep love bright today.” Fr. Guerric DeBona

grace, peace & (new) perspectives

Virginia : )

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Gardens of Light (& Delight!)

Zooming out and about with my 80 year old energizer uncle (who still teaches as a full-time professor and is faculty advisor to 40+ students @ a college in Iowa) on Saturday we visited the Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden in Richmond (VA) to see their GardenFest of Lights.

A crescent moon sighting, so beautiful!

This year’s GardenFest celebrates the magic of things that fly, along with the 50 year anniversary of the moon landing…

We saw the man on the moon…

and a magical peacock of gigantic proportions!

There was also a gigantic Christmas tree with bluebirds and blue planes. (Virginia, who loves turquoise, periwinkle, and especially bluebirds, was particularly impressed with this year’s tree!)

So much color everywhere we looked!

An “enlightened” Japanese Garden…

and purple vistas that enchanted us, tremendously~!

A “bubbly fountain” that changed colors…

and pathways of delight…

All in all, an enchanting evening of lights and delight we will never forget!!

HaPpY New Year to all of you!!

grace, peace & gardens of Light

Virginia : )

“Light tomorrow with today.” Elizabeth Barrett Browning

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MERRY IN-BETWEEN!! : )

In this place of space in-between Christmas and New Year’s hope everyone is having a grand time…

My idea of a (really good) time: my niece Megan’s cheeseboard on Christmas Eve when she hosted us to a divinely delicious meal of epicurean proportions in her chic apartment in the Ghent area of Norfolk.

Another view of the cheese board (before we demolished it!)

Many thanks to for all the encouragement during Virginia’s “post-a-day” Advent gig – all the emails, comments, texts were greatly appreciated. Wishing everyone a (very) Merry In-Between as the New Year approaches…

Here’s a precious ‘In-Between’ moment my sister, Shere, just captured of my niece’s dog BB (must confess Auntie V has a special place in her heart for this “Doggone Doggie!”)

MERRY IN-BETWEEN!!

grace, peace & making Merry

Virginia : )

“A merry heart does good like medicine.” (Proverbs 17:22)

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Fragrant (Merry) Christmas Grooves!

“Jesus in your heart! Eternity in your mind! The will of God in all your actions! But, above all, love, God’s love, entire Love!” Saint Catherine of Genoa

 MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

May petals of fragrant Love from the Heart of Jesus give you grace to face the good and thorny in your life today and each day of the New Year. Thorns are part and parcel of life as a rose, but roses persevere with fragrance grooves (the effervescent keep on blooming anyway kind.)

Wishing you a Merry Christmas filled with Grace, Hope, Joy, Peace, (persevering) Love & lots of fragrant good cheer!

grace, peace & fragrant Christmas grooves

Virginia : )

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A Christmas Eve “Divine Yes”

“Every time we give in to selfishness and say ‘No’ to God, we spoil His loving plan for us.” Pope Francis

Tonight Advent ends and Christmas begins. Think of Mary, her “yes” to God, her “yes” to what seemed impossible, her “yes” to what God asked of her.

“Let it be to me as you have said…”

“Jesus is the Divine ‘yes!’ to our human ‘we’ll see’ or ‘kind-ofs.’ It is the relationship to which Jesus has said and does say ‘yes’ that allows us to live with our inconsistencies. Actions speak loudly and words are whispers of hope. We will eventually do what we know ourselves to be. Jesus comes to give us ourselves so that we can give Him to others.”  Larry Gillick, S.J.

May this Christmas and New Year be filled with “yes-es” to God…

grace, peace & Divine ‘yes-es’

Virginia : )

“God gives that we may give.” Pope Benedict XVI

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ADVENT – Persevering Love & Joy

“Perseverance means the flowering of the love of God. It grows and grows, descending upon a soul like a cascade of flowers.” Catherine Doherty

Tomorrow is Christmas Eve. As our Advent journey ends, Christmas and the path to a New Year begins. Are we ready to be surprised by joy? Are we ready to persevere so that God’s love may grow new buds of hope in our hearts in the New Year?

“We ought not to be weary of doing little things for the love of God, Who regards not the greatness of the work, but the love with which it is performed.” Brother Lawrence

“Every joy, great or small, is akin and always a refreshment.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“You are God’s Good News. You are God’s love in action.” Mother Teresa (Saint Teresa of Calcutta)

 “It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you.” Mother Teresa (Saint Teresa of Calcutta)

grace, peace & persevering Christmas Love

Virginia : )

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#ADVENT: Dewdrops of Mercy and Light

On this fourth and final Sunday of Advent (with Christmas just around the corner), Virginia is contemplating walking in the Light of God’s love…

“Arise, shine, for the Light of the world is come…” (Isaiah 60:1)

“Walk in the Light, beautiful Light, come where the dewdrops of mercy shine bright…” Thomas Whitfield

“May Your waxen candles flaming spread their warmth, as their glow flickers darkness into light. May Your will be done to make us one again; may Your love’s glimmering hope illuminate our night.

When now the silence spreads around us, O let us hear the sounds You raise, of world unseen in growth abounding, and the children chanting hymns of praise.

The forces of good surround us in wonder, they firm up our courage for what comes our way, God’s with us from dawn to slumber of evening, the promise of Love at break of each day.”  Dietrich Bonhoeffer

grace, peace & dewdrops of God’s Love

Virginia : )

Photos: Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden, Richmond (VA)

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#ADVENT – Bleak Midwinter Blues-busters

As Advent winds down, bleak midwinter blues may loom on the horizon.

Yesterday while listening to Annie Lennox’s Christmas Cornucopia (that sees playlist action all year around) the words to In the Bleak Midwinter made me pause…

In the bleak midwinter, frosty wind made moan,
Earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone;
Snow had fallen, snow on snow, snow on snow,
In the bleak midwinter, long ago.

Our God, Heaven cannot hold Him, nor earth sustain;
Heaven and earth shall flee away when He comes to reign.
In the bleak midwinter a stable place sufficed
The Lord God Almighty, Jesus Christ…

Christina Rossetti (1830-1894)

Our hearts may feel like frozen bleak mid winter landscapes, made cold and brittle by our fears, failures and tears of years past. Or maybe our hearts have been broken by beanheads (or beanheadettes) and we are not letting anyone else in.

Lift up ye heads, oh ye gates, be lifted up, ye ancient doors, that the King of Glory may come in… (Psalm 24:9)

Give up (all those dreary fears.)  Open up (dry your tears.)  Step up (and try again.)

Let the King of Glory into the stables of our hearts.  Let Him be born anew in us today.

grace, peace & bleak winter blues-busters

 Virginia : )

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