Grand Illuminations (& Advent Awakenings)

Yesterday at church Father James Glass (our campus minister) said that part of Advent is staying awake. “Do not become drowsy.” (With the heat cranked up, maybe he noticed a few nodding heads.) He asked, “How would you feel if someone said, ‘I’m drowsy in you’ (vs. I’m in love with you?)”

Hence his admonition we’re to stay awake in the love of Jesus this Advent.

Later on yesterday, after zooming out and about in the dreary rain, I had just put on comfy sweats at home when my brother motivate-texted to meet up with him & his buddy at the Grand Illumination our town of Williamsburg hosts every year.

It usually is a grand time, but not so much fun in the rain. I had already taken a pass (rain, crowds & all that) but serendipitously the rain dissipated enough for a sliver of clear sky to be sighted out my window. Thus encouraged, I rallied forth to the festivities (along with mobs and mobs of other folks!)

‘Twas truly a grand time – our town does things up with colonial fifes and drums, musicians in various viewing spots sharing a plethora of music, white candles in every window, handmade wreaths on every door, white lights everywhere, along with cauldrons burning to keep folks warm.

There’s also an ice rink for the holiday season.

The Grand Illumination culminates with fireworks in three places: the Governor’s Green in front of the Governor’s palace, by the old Capitol building, and in the middle of Duke of Gloucester Street in front of the armory. We happened to be situated in front of the armory listening to the fife and drum corps when the fireworks began.

The Colonial Williamsburg Fife & Drum Corps

I’ve never been so close to fireworks, in this case shooting stars, exploding red and green lights, and majestic displays that went on for over 20 minutes.

We also had the special delight to see several street level displays go off – a Christmas tree, a heart encased in fireworks, and later a swirly spinning wheel.

A heart encased in fireworks

My iPhone pics can’t do justice to the evening, but Colonial Williamsburg’s celebration this year truly was a Grand Illumination. So (very) glad I ‘woke up’ out of my comfortable chair and sleepy sweats to attend.

Staying awake spiritually on this second day of Advent, here’s a quote from a daily reading:

“You are the handiwork of God, await the hand of the Artist who does all things in due season. Offer the pottery of your heart, soft and tractable, and keep well the form in which the Artist has fashioned you.” Saint Irenaeus  (130-202 AD)

grace, peace & (illuminating) awakenings

Virginia : )

p.s. Saint Irenaeus also shared one of my favorite quotes:

“The glory of God is the human person fully alive.”

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Advent: …and so it begins

And so it begins…today is the first Sunday of Advent (whether we’re ready or not.)

Advent is a time of preparation and joyful anticipation, of waiting and doing (while we work on that patience thing waiting.)

Advent is a journey of wonder and faith as we travel with Mary from Nazareth to the manger, risking all yet trusting God.

A journey toward new beginnings.

“Fear not, for I am with you. BE not afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. I will help you. I will uphold you with the right hand of My righteousness.” (Isaiah 41:10)

“Always remember this: life is a journey. It is a path, a journey to meet Jesus. At the end, and forever. It is to continually encounter Jesus.”  Pope Francis

And so our Advent journey begins, as we must each day begin, again and again, walking the path of faith with Jesus.

grace, peace & (Advent-ish) beginnings

Virginia : )

p.s. Virginia is once again plotting (& hoping) to do her post-a-day Advent gig. Realizing many friends and readers are of different faiths (& that it’s also an extremely busy time of the year) I hope that a quickie quote, photo, or Christmas meandering might spread a bit of joy and understanding around. Advent blessings to all!

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Inspirational Journeys: For Greater Glory

Celebrating the feast of Christ the King yesterday reminded me of the powerful movie “For Greater Glory.” After watching it in the theater six years ago, the following Christmas I gifted DVD copies to my entire family. As we prepare for the coming of Advent next Sunday, it’s a good reminder that often faith requires sacrifice.  

“Que viva Cristo Rey!”

Inspiration permeates this thought-provoking true story about religious freedom in Mexico during the 1920s regime of President Plutarco Calles. Beautifully crafted, well acted with an amazing cast, this is the kind of movie that stays with you awhile.

This epic creatively intertwines historic civic struggle against oppression with the transformation stories of two central figures: a little boy and a great general.

The movie opens as young José Luis Sánchez del Rio (Mauricio Kuri) throws rotten fruit at an elderly village priest. Caught in the act, his uncle the mayor makes him help Father Christopher around the church. As José experiences Father Christopher’s faith in God and in him (even though he is quite a little hoodlum Father Christopher asks him to become an altar boy) José begins to change.

“Who are you if you don’t stand up for what you believe?”

So asks Father Christopher as José pleads for him to hide when government troops enter the village to kill him. (Peter O’Toole gives an incredibly inspirational performance as Father Christopher.) As José watches Fr. Christopher die for his faith, his life is transformed.

“Who are you if you don’t stand up for what you believe?”

Andy Garcia gives an amazing performance as General Enrique Gorostieta Velarde, a retired general renown for successful battle strategies who is called upon to serve the Cristero movement that rose up in revolt against President Calles’ (Ruben Blades) repressive anti-faith laws and oppressive measures. Even though his wife Tulita (Eva Longoria) is devout, General Velarde is an atheist. He does, however, believe in freedom (and may be a little bored running his soap factory) so he accepts the task of unifying the scattered resistance and leading them into a cohesive fighting force.

He finds leadership must be earned among the rough and ready bandito-ish fighters.

“Freedom is not just for writers and fancy documents, but for our homes, our families, and our lives.”  

In the process General Velarde is transformed as he sees the faith of those around him, especially José who he comes to love like a son. As he struggles with faith, “I don’t know where to find it.” One devout lady responds, “if your heart is open it will find you.”

Rated R for battle sequences and violence (not nearly as gory as Braveheart or The Patriot) this movie also chronicles the heroic efforts of the Cristero movement leadership and the sacrificial participation of so many individuals from all levels of Mexican society. Women played a crucial role, priests provided spiritual support (and in some cases military support), villagers provided food and shelter, lawyers drafted civil plans: all choosing to stand up for what they believed at great sacrifice.

I knew very little of this period in Mexico’s history except for a favorite book by Graham Greene, The Power & The Glory (set at the same time), but this is quite an education of unsung heroes who fought (and died) bravely for freedom and faith.

Que viva Cristo Rey!  (Long live Christ the King!)

grace, peace & inspirational movies

Virginia : )

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(uplifting) holiday blues

(Reader Alert: you might need a tissue at hand…)

After a plethora of lovely meals and family gathering(s), blogger Virginia (who also serves as a chief cook & menu strategist for family Thanksgivings) is in recovery mode. So grateful for special fellowship with my four siblings (& lifemates) who made it from near and far along with nieces and nephews (including our handsome new 3-month old great-nephew Lincoln, who oohed & ahhed for us at appropriate junctures.)

Usually the day after Thanksgiving we continue our festive goings-on, but this year everyone came earlier in the week and had to trek back home on Black Friday. I’ve never done any shopping on Black Friday (kind of on principle) but after giving my sis and her husband an early send-off I noticed World Market’s sales included 40% off their entire tea collection.

As faithful readers know, tea is one of Virginia’s favorite things (tied with chocolate.)

Change of plan: instead of crawling back in bed and being a couch potato (like, all day long) avid tea groupie Virginia rallied to brave crowds in pursuit of tea. Fortified at a brunch treat out with my brother, we hit the tea mother lode @ World Market (they had one of my favorite Christmas teas! 40% off!!) A full cart of tea later, Dwight went off with one of his buddies and I decided to use more coupons at another favorite store: Barnes & Noble (books! music! movies! = a favorite hangout.)

After major contemplation, Virginia’s big Black Friday acquisition = the soundtrack for the second Mamma Mia movie (Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again.) The first Mamma Mia movie is a fav. When I saw it years ago the whole theater jumped up at the end clapping. Watching the second one last summer with my sister & niece, I enjoyed many parts but one song stayed with me long after: My Love, My Life (by Benny Andersson, Bjorn Ulvaeus, Stig Anderson)

Here’s a YouTube video of it (email readers you know the drill – you need to click into the Roses website to view it & endure the 5 second ad.)

“…Oh yes, and as one are we/ In the now and beyond/ Nothing and no one can break this bond…”

Instead of jumping up clapping at the end of this movie, I scrambled to find tissues for streaming eyes that miss my precious Mama. And Papa. Playing this song again today reminded me of all the special Thanksgivings we shared, of Mama & Papa’s daily attitudes of gratitude, of their love and gift of presence in our lives – and I needed more Kleenex!

Holiday blues are hard missing loved ones, but no one can break the bonds of joy that strengthen our hearts with tears and love from above.

grace, peace & uplifting holiday blues

Virginia : )

p.s. Two pots of Christmas Tea already made (& sampled.)

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(workin’ on) an attitude of gratitude

As Americans scurry to make preparations for Thursday’s Thanksgiving holiday, it’s good for all of us to take a few minutes to give thanks.

In this case more is better (vs. less is more) because once we start our thankful for lists it’s easier to let a full-fledged attitude of gratitude take over our hearts.

When challenges surround us (even seemingly insurmountable ones) it’s a discipline to give thanks for what lies betwixt and between the bad stuff. It’s not necessary to thank God for the bad stuff, but for packages of grace in the bad stuff.

Some packages are easier to identify than others – love, beauty, family, friends, provisions of grace, strength to endure (minute by minute), God’s peace, joy and…chocolate.

(Chocolate may not take challenges away, but certainly helps this chocoholic cope.)

An attitude of gratitude is not something to put on just one day of the year (ie, Thanksgiving) but is something that can add meaning to each and every day. Feeling grumpy in the morning? Try being grateful for one thing…then another.

(Counteracting morning grumps can also be chased with post haste indulgence in your beverage of choice, in my case, hot tea.)

If we let gratitude infiltrate our interactions with others, it lifts them (and us) up, too.

“I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder… When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.”  G.K. Chesterton

grace, peace & gratitude attitudes

Virginia : )

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VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! VOTE!!

For friends from other countries (& here, too) these last few weeks the U.S. midterm elections have swallowed our national media’s attention for the big showdown Tuesday, November 6th. Usually not as many Americans vote in midterms (the 2-year interval between our Presidential elections) but this year early voting and absentee ballots have seen record numbers around the country.

In our midterms we elect senators and congressional representatives (from local districts) to represent us in the U.S. Senate and House of Representatives respectively. Some states also have gubernatorial races along with statewide ‘yes or no’ issues to decide.

Here in Virginia (the state of) we are electing representatives from our local districts and have one Senate seat open. Once again amidst angry mudslinging there is a distinct need for more civility (as I wrote here during the last election: CIVILITY PLEASE .)

As a university student I was on the executive board of a collegiate partisan group. With over 1,000 members we busily engaged in myriad activities during elections: phone banks, door to door canvassing, mobilizing voters, painting our university bridge (a UVA thing.) But I also hung out socially with the other political group on campus (they had fewer members, but were loads of fun to be friends with!) At times we engaged in spirited debates but were unified in our desire to get more people involved in the process.

Because that’s the point – to be involved. With many challenges facing our country, the first step is basic: VOTE. No matter what party you support, get out there and vote!

It may not be just about following political party lines, but issues that are important to you. Look at the candidates’ stands on those issues and choose accordingly.

This year a local newspaper has endorsed a split ticket in our area. Looking at the issues, I am voting accordingly because I believe the two candidates (from different parties) have done (and will continue to do) a good job getting things done in D.C. despite the nasty shenanigans going on there.

We need voices of light and reason in our political discourse – let’s hope more than a few get elected tomorrow who can build bridges of hope and understanding (not hate and fear.)

Here’s a song for today (tomorrow & every day) from one of my all-time favorite musicians, James Taylor. I was blessed to see him four times in concert as a student in Charlottesville.

Shed A Little Light…

“Let us turn our thoughts today to Martin Luther King and recognize that there are ties between us, all men and women living on the Earth. Ties of hope and love, sister and brotherhood, that we are bound together in our desire to see the world become a place in which our children can grow free and strong. We are bound together by the task that stands before us and the road that lies ahead. We are bound and we are bound.”

James Taylor, Country Road Music, INC.

The Road that lies ahead…(hopefully brighter!)

VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! VOTE!

grace, peace & elections

Virginia : )

“Winning or losing the election is less important than strengthening the country.” Indira Gandhi

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Tree of Life: Sorrow, Horror & Prayer(s)

“All that is left to us is our being horrified at the loss of our sense of horror.” Rabbi Abraham Heschel

My heart and prayers are with the victims and families of the mass shooting that took place on Saturday at the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh, PA. Hearing of such reckless hate that killed mainly elderly members of the congregation, I could not help but think of my precious parents and how it would feel if they had died in such a manner.

Senseless. Horrifying. Because this act of hatred is horrifying.

These last years we Americans have faced multiple mass shootings: 20 children and 6 teachers killed @ Sandy Hook Elementary school in Connecticut; 17 students and teachers @ Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Florida; 32 college students at Virginia Tech; the killing of 9 African Americans @ Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal church in Charleston, SC; 49 members of the LBGTQ community gunned down @ the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, FL; 58 killed in Las Vegas, 26 killed in Sutherland Springs, TX  — and unfortunately the list goes on.

Such deaths may dull our sense of what constitutes horror – is it the number killed, or the manner in which they are killed?

But that’s the point of Rabbi Heschel’s teaching: each and every act of violence should be a wake up call to the horror of hate.

Rabbi Heschel (1907-1972) knew all about hate as one of the few members of his family to survive the Holocaust, yet he did all he could to build bridges of understanding and prayer. As an activist during the Civil Rights era he marched with Martin Luther King, Jr.

“When I marched in Selma, my feet were praying.” Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel

My challenge to friends and readers of this blog here and all around the world: do not let acts of senseless violence dull the reality of hate’s horror. Instead, let our feet pray with acts of kindness, courage, and love.

Jefferson National Forest, VA

On Friday my sister Shere & I zoomed 9 hours to Ohio for a short visit with our brother Dean and his wife, Lynn. In the aftermath of what happened in Pittsburgh, I took this picture on the return trip in the mountains of Virginia (just over the West Virginia state line.)

May we all plants seeds of love wherever we are so they may grow into trees of peace and understanding – Trees of Life and prayers that unite us.

grace, peace & prayers

Virginia

“Prayer is our humble answer to the inconceivable surprise of living.

Prayer begins where our power ends.”  Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel

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Movie Roundup: Lots to Contemplate

After a month of not seeing one movie in the theater, it’s been a bonanza two-movie week. Last Tuesday night (our local Regal Theater hosts 1/2 price movies on Tuesdays) my brother and I saw “First Man” about Neil Armstrong’s journey to the moon, then on Monday I zoomed down to Newport News (our nearest big city) to see “Gosnell: The Trial of America’s Biggest Serial Killer.”

Two different yet sobering movies that offered lots to contemplate.

As NASA groupies, my brother and I plotted months ago to see “First Man” after watching the preview. It wasn’t quite what I expected – definitely not a get-up-and-cheer NASA movie like one of my favorites “Hidden Figures.” Instead, it’s a sobering snapshot of the cost of getting to the moon: in lives, determination, dedication, sacrifice(s), plus the psychological and physical tolls on astronauts and their families.

Ryan Gosling as Neil Armstrong has come a long way since “The Proposal” with Sandra Bullock. (Although he was hilarious in that and I’m a huge Sandra Bullock groupie.) Both he and Claire Foy, who plays Neil’s wife Janet, deliver moving performances of emotional depth.

“But why, some say, the Moon? Why choose this as our goal? And they may well ask, why climb the highest mountain? Why, 35 years ago, fly the Atlantic? …We choose to go to the Moon! We choose to go to the Moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard; because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills, because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one we intend to win, and the others, too.”   President John F. Kennedy

Awhile back I heard Ellen Stofan as NASA’s Chief Scientist give a talk to alumni at The College of William & Mary (where I went to graduate school.) She said that NASA’s extraordinary achievement reaching the moon in the 1960s motivated a host of innovators who subsequently made advancements across multiple medical and technological fields. (It’s humbling to note that the small chips in our cellphones now hold more computing power than those early NASA rockets.)

As was then – the sacrifices Neil Armstrong, his wife and family made plus those of fellow astronauts to reach the moon – so, too, now the going may be hard facing the seemingly insurmountable challenges in our country and world today.

My movie takeaway: In doing great things there is sacrifice. What are we personally willing to sacrifice to achieve our goals individually and collectively?

Now I must say I’m not usually one to watch FBI thriller movies about serial killers. Last week after reading Caralyn’s blog post about it over at BeautyBeyondBones, the fact that most media blocked this movie got my dander up.

I’m ornery that way, so went to see it (despite misgivings about the potential gore factor.)

Just like during the case and trial of Dr. Kermit Gosnell who was convicted of multiple murders in 2013, no one wants to deal with (or talk about) the fact that he was an abortion doctor. Thus what he did went on unabated until an FBI drug raid on his clinic revealed – well, go see the movie to find out.

This movie could have been so gory. It’s not. After reading Kathy Reich’s Temperance Brennan books and watching Bones, this movie is like a mild Bones episode. (Must say a few Bones episodes were a bit too much for me!)

I do have views on abortion that I’ve written about previously (click here to read them) but I also have friends and colleagues who have differing views.

I respect them and their views.

But one challenge this movie highlights is what happens when no one speaks up – when rigidly held views cover up crimes?

This movie is about truth – difficult truths – and how we face them.

It’s also about courage. Joanne Pescatore, the Assistant D.A. who prosecuted the case, was pro-choice but could not deny the facts as more was revealed. An investigative blogger Molly (a composite character based on one journalist and one blogger who covered the trial when no one else did) courageously tweets and shames the media into eventually paying attention to the trial.

Even with piles of evidence, the trial would have been lost if not for the courage of a young staff member from Dr. Gosnell’s clinic.

Who took a picture.

A difficult truth.

If you have a chance, go see this movie. It’s actually a well done film with good actors stretching a small budget (as big Hollywood movies go) mostly focused on the trial (using actual transcripts.) Think Law & Order on a big screen.

Gosnell: The Trial of America’s Biggest Serial Killer

Making a beeline to the restroom after the movie (my Mama always said, “tea in, tea out”) I saw another lady doing the same.

I said, “I don’t think I want to see that photograph.” (As the credits rolled, there was a website address listed to view it.)

She replied, “I think everyone should see it.”

That challenged me, Bones gory-index notwithstanding, how many things do we look away from. Avoid?

Not just this issue, but any issue that might rock the boat of our comfortable securities and views? That might make us think for a minute (or two) differently?

Life is a gift to be treasured in equal measure – the lives of every one of us, of every color, orientation, gender, status, age, religion, wealth, of refugees, immigrants, children in cages at our border, the abused, and those killed brutally around the world.

Life is a gift.

Back to Virginia’s movie roundup. Two movies with different yet similar messages relevant for today: the daily sacrificial cost and challenges of achievement, the need for compassionate courage, and how we face difficult truths (especially when they conflict with our views.)

grace, peace & inspirational movies

Virginia

“I guess we all like to be recognized not for one piece of fireworks but for the ledger of our daily work.”  Neil Armstrong

p.s. It took two days but I finally looked up the photograph, thanks to the lady in the Newport News theater for challenging me. It is horrifying (& I have viewed some relatively tough stuff, including mass graves in Kosovo.) A very difficult truth.

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Lullabies for Insomniacs : )

Blogger Virginia’s wisdom is all tapped out, what with all she shared last week(!) Plus she’s a tad wiped out from a misbehaving thyroid that occasionally makes a full night of sleep an elusive endeavor. (Sporadic sleep a well-rested blogger does not make.)

This morning while blasting out Paul Simon to get today’s grooves going (after yet again too few hours sleep) suddenly the words from one of his songs permeated Virginia’s droopy consciousness.

“Oh Lord, don’t keep me up all night
With questions I can’t understand
While I wrestle my fears
The sound in my ears
Is the music that’s sweeping the land
The Insomniac’s Lullaby…”   (Paul Simon)

Looked over at the iTouch to catch the song title: “Insomniac’s Lullaby.”

Appropriate for can’t sleep Virginia (and possibly others living in our whacked world with questions we can’t quite understand? Fears, ditto?)

It’s a great song with powerful lyrics, so here it is for all of you via a YouTube video. (Email readers, you know the drill – click in to the Roses website to view the video.)

Another fav song on this ‘Stranger to Stranger’ compilation is entitled Wristband. If you’d like some foot tapping action, click here to view a fun 4 minute VEVO video of Paul Simon and his band performing it. https://youtu.be/9lJHVpH5v8Q

Hopefully tonight we will all sleep side by side with the moon (not awake with the moon!)

grace, peace & insomniacs’ lullabies

Virginia : )

p.s. As a longtime Paul Simon groupie, I have enjoyed many of his compilations. ‘Stranger to Stranger’ is one of his newer ones, but my favorites are still ‘Graceland’ & ‘The Rhythm of the Saints.’

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Life Advice: (keep on) Wearing Sunscreen

In 2017 Virginia passed the 30-year marker since her undergraduate university graduation, which means twenty years of added experience after the commencement advice whipped up for the Class of 1997 (as shared here last week.)

Twenty years for Virginia (the person, not to be confused with the state) that included more time in the Middle East, studying hard for (& earning) a graduate degree, a short stint in the relief context of war torn Kosovo, a globetrotting job managing a safe-water initiative for 14 countries, 4 years working in Tanzania, and a (much longer than expected) care-giving gig looking after her bedfast quadriplegic Papa and arthritic wheelchair riding Mama.

With the opportunity to impart life advice from the standpoint of an older (hopefully wiser) Virginia, here (as promised last week) are a few more tidbits to add to the 1997 list.

Wearing sunscreen is still important (especially for red heads schlepping suitcases full of it to Africa where the sun burned even brighter than the Middle East!)

Virginia’s Advice to the Class of 2017

(& learners of all ages today)

What you do is important, but how you do it (not trampling others in the process) matters more in the Heavenly scheme of things.

You only have one set of parents: honor them.

You may be battered and bruised by life, but you are a valuable diamond of God’s delight – and diamonds are hard to crush.

Respect yourself. Respect others (& maybe others will more readily respect you.)

Pain is part and parcel of life; misery, however, is a choice.

Joy is a choice: choose joy.

Peace is a choice: choose peace.

Love is a choice: choose love.

Healing is a journey of discovery, recovery and new beginnings. It can take a long time (& loads of effort.)

Take time to be mesmerized by God’s heavenly paintbrushes busy in creation all around you – and within you.

Music enhances our life grooves, the soundtrack of our lives. It’s OK to turn up the volume.

Put God first, then figuring out the rest is not such an ordeal.

Keep trying new things, learning new things. It’s never too late to learn something new.

Small acts of kindness make a difference (& big acts, too.)

Make laughter a regular part of your schedule.

Presents are good, but the gift of your compassionate presence means even more (especially in tough times.)

God’s will is like an oriental carpet woven a little haphazardly on one side, but beautifully patterned on the other side (especially from the distance of time) for all to see.

When you’re tired, rest. When you’re tired of, take a break, rest (and pray.)

Burnout happens. Let go of yourself for awhile. Do something different (or do nothing at all) until you find the joy of doing again.

Friends matter.

Chocolate comes in vegan varieties. It’s still good.

Bitterness is a poison best spit out, not swallowed over and over again.

Regret something, but get over wallowing in it.

Take initiative. Why not try?

Be thankful. An attitude of gratitude goes a long way when the chips are down.

Failures happen. They can be opportunities to learn, stepping stones into the new you (& something new.)

Celebrate your uniqueness and the diverse uniqueness of others.

Conformity is overrated. Be yourself.

Agree to disagree: value friends and others with differing opinions.

Honey works (most times) better than vinegar. Doesn’t mean there aren’t times for acerbic accountability (bees sting when threatened.)

Read. Read to learn. Read to remember. Read for fun. Read to enlarge your world. Read to understand. Read to grow. Read until your eyes can’t see words on the page (& then get better glasses.)

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but wisdom.

Despair is everywhere. You never know when a smile, joke or kind interaction could be a spark of light in the despondence of another person.

Check your facts. Forwarding lies about other people means you are participating in those lies.

You can’t take it with you (really.)  Don’t let your possessions possess you.

Giving is a joy (vs. a duty.) How you give, whatever you give, matters.

Time is a gift. Spend it wisely.

Keep in touch, make that call. No one is an island. Relationships take effort.

Take time to smell the roses. (If you’re allergic, at least enjoy admiring them from afar.)

Roses on Valentine’s Day are worth it (even if you give them to yourself.)

A mate does not define who you are – you are who you are as you.

Quality vs. quantity: would you rather have one nice skirt that lasts ten years, or ten that last a few months?

Faith is not about rationality but Love. Hope. Mercy. Grace. Belief.

Be courageous.

‘What ifs?’ Don’t go there. Now is today’s opportunity to be the best me I can be.

Life is a gift. (However painful & challenging, it is still a gift.)

Wearing sunscreen, as we get older, is still good advice.

Very good advice.

Oh, and one last thing. When our whacked out world crashes our peace of mind —

 DON’T PANIC!!

grace, peace & (non-panicking) life advice

Virginia : )

p.s. A shout out to Theresa Ollice for her encouragement to share this second list from older (& hopefully wiser) Virginia. Thank you, Theresa, for being an inspiration to me – may God continue to bless you in all you do!

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