walking, walking….

Here’s a quickie quote for our minds to munch on:

“Sometimes we think that if the Lord comes into our lives, He will change us.  Yes, we do change: it is called conversion.  But He does not act ‘like a fairy with a magic wand.’  No, He gives you the grace and He says, as He said to everyone He healed: GO, walk.”   Pope Francis

… if that walking by faith thing scares just a little, just remember Bill Murray in the classic “What about Bob” movie:

BABY STEPS.

If we’re not grooving to massive strides (like my older brother Dean, who at 6’7″ is hard to keep up with – growing up 4 of my steps = one of his!)  just keep in mind baby steps are ok.

Actually baby steps can be a very good thing, especially when we’re bowled over by life’s curve balls or enormitude (enormous magnitude) of injustices & global challenges, it’s a good idea to take a small step.  Do what’s right in front of you, the next thing.  It might be small, but that’s how we change.. and how things get changed.

just sayin’, change may be hard, but one tiny step at a time, maybe not-as-hard.

(after all, Jesus said, “walk“…. not ‘run’  : )

grace, peace & faith walking

Virginia : )

NC Gr Mt feet

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GIFTS …and Gifts…

Gifts (the giving of) and Gifts (the receiving of) are a big part of this holiday season.  We spend a great deal of time, or too little time (if busy schedules make us Christmas Eve shoppers), trying to find gifts for our loved ones, friends and colleagues.

As you dodge in & out of shops searching for that elusive gift for that special someone on your Christmas list (or as you pore over internet options), remember the reason for season.

Yep, i know that’s cliche, but can’t hurt to remind ourselves that Christmas is about God’s gift to us:  JESUS.

But, what about our gifts to God?  We give many gifts to each other, but have we thought about what we want to give God this year?

We could offer our hearts, minds and spirits …

Maybe that sounds like a lot, so, let’s start with a simple gift.

Freedom.  To be FREE …to BE… happy for others, happy TO others.

It’s not about us, it’s about GOD… & maybe God has blessed our family & friends with special gifts this year.  Let’s rejoice with them.  Be glad (life is not a competition!)

Part of this freedom thing is sharing joy – the joy we carry in our hearts because Christmas is really there.

So if we’re in line, we can try smiling at the harried cashier & the cranky folks in front or behind us.  A smile is a gift (especially if our feet & spirits are worn out) – but we can do it, with God’s grace… and see what happens.  (By adding a Christmas carol hum, you may get a hum-a-long going & the line wait may dissipate with a little holiday cheer : )

There are so many gifts we can give God – our time, so very precious at this time of year, but give-able if we make an effort for extra prayers, a little more worship, special times of adoration, quiet times in the Scriptures…

…we can schedule (or ‘just do it’) small acts of kindness…

…maybe we don’t have a zillion $$, but we could give up a week of Starbucks holiday drinkies to give something extra to our favorite cause (that hopefully helps others..)

It’s a question to consider as we write out our Christmas gift lists …nothing is too small.

“There are many people who can do big things.  But there are very few people who will do the small things. Even if you write a letter for a blind man or you just go and sit and listen, or you take the mail for him, or you visit somebody or bring a flower to somebody – small things – or wash clothes, or clean house.  We are so small we look at things in a small way. But God, being Almighty, sees everything great.”    Mother Teresa

Tree lights

grace, peace & GIFTS

Virginia : )

p.s. my brother & I just saw the movie, “Exodus,” with Christian Bale et all. (Nice sister Shere gave the gift of her time this afternoon to hang out with Mama since Dwight had off!)  Contrary to expectations (Noah, groan, groan), it’s actually quite a good movie. Excellent actors & acting. It gives deep meaning to the word: FREEDOM.

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Risking Birth (on Earth?)

Here’s something to ponder today from a favorite author…

This is no time for a child to be born,
With the earth betrayed by war & hate
And a comet slashing the sky to warn
That time runs out & the sun burns late.

That was no time for a child to be born,
In a land in the crushing grip of Rome;
Honour & truth were trampled by scorn-
Yet here did the Saviour make his home.

When is the time for love to be born?
The inn is full on the planet earth,
And by a comet the sky is torn-
Yet Love still takes the risk of birth.

Madeleine L’Engle, The Risk of Birth (1973)

Light candles Italygrace, peace & risky love

Virginia

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Human Rights, Human Rights!!!!

Dashing about the mad ‘get-everything-ready’ holiday rush, it’s difficult to slow down to think about – Human Rights??  But today back in 1948 a war weary world came together  to ratify the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.  (Click here to read it.)

Each year on 10 December we commemorate this declaration: the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights gets a bit more media attention & folks working for justice around the globe have their sound byte, but tomorrow the world will move on to the next celebrity crisis… and we pass around another round of Eggnog.

Before taking that next sip of Eggnog (or your holiday drinkie of choice) think about the many girls & women who have been victims of gender violence –especially RAPE – in places like Bosnia, Kosovo, the DRC (Congo) & Sudan where it has been used as a weapon of war.   Often that’s just the beginning of their horrors. In Kosovo when I met with a 12 year-old rape victim that was the least of her worries after being used as a human shield by paramilitary forces in the war zone… and in Africa kidnapped girls are raped, then forced to be ‘wives’ for conscripted soldiers.

Water KenyaThinking about basic human rights (and the lack thereof) we take so much for granted.  Living and working in places where people had no rights, I am so grateful for the freedoms & opportunities i had growing up.  For example, the right to EDUCATION.  So many girls (& boys in some places, but especially girls) don’t have a chance for even primary school since taking care of livestock & crops & fetching water is part of family survival.  Where I worked in the Middle East, all the schools were shut down for four years – even kindergarten teachers caught teaching their students were sent to prison. Then in other parts of the world girls still don’t have a chance to study because …they’re GIRLS.

Then there’s TORTURE.

If we would think more about the Golden Rule: ‘do unto others as you would have them do unto you’ – maybe dehumanization would not happen & this great evil would not persist.

How would you feel if your wife, daughter, son, brother, sister, husband, or father was beaten, imprisoned, and routinely tortured? How would you feel if the breaking of your bones was considered “moderate physical pressure?”

So why is it ‘ok’ to torture anyone?? (According to the Universal Declaration of Human Rights: IT’S NOT OK!)

The most fundamental right, however, is the right to LIFE.

Kosovo mass grave bone (2)Here’s a paragraph from a younger Virginia in an old Christmas letter:

“…and seeing mass graves of bodies hacked in senseless violence. I spoke with a farmer in a village near Podejevo. The bodies of his father (78), mother (72), neighbor (70), and sister (55) had been dumped into a mass grave we visited.  Although his sister’s husband had urged her to flee, she wouldn’t leave her feeble parents by themselves. His sister and parents were killed, their ears, arms and other body parts sliced and mutilated, and yet, with tears streaming down his face, this farmer said, “it’s not right that we burn Serb houses now.” When I asked about living again with Serbs, he said, “we’ve suffered so much it would be difficult,” but then later, however, he told me there was an elderly Serb woman living on his street, “she’s different, we will protect her because she’s our neighbor.” 

I  remember this farmer, vividly. He pleaded with his sister to join them as they fled their village to safety, but she said, “who will take care of our parents?  They’re so old & can’t hurt anyone, why would anyone want to hurt them?”   Indeed.

“Nothing matters so much to me as human life.  It is something so serious and so profound, more than the violation of any other human right, because it is the life of the sons (& daughters) of God, and because this blood (the murders of so many in El Salvador) negates love, awakens new hate and makes peace & reconciliation impossible.”  Archbishop Oscar Romero

Life IS a Gift… and so many like Oscar Romero around the world (& in this country)  laid down their lives in the pursuit of justice, equal rights – basic human rights FOR ALL.  Thanking God – today & EVERY DAY – for the gift of their lives & their legacy to continue fighting injustice wherever, whenever, however we can…

So pass around more Eggnog, raise those glasses high – and hear Virginia’s Human Rights Day toast:  TO LIFE! TO JUSTICE! TO FREEDOM!

Look around – see what you can do to root out the rubble of injustice wherever you are & around the World.   Let’s be about it!!

 “The Glory of God is a human being fully alive.” 
St. Irenaeus

uganda joygrace, peace & Human Rights (for all!)

Virginia

“…is this not the fast that I choose: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?…”  Isaiah 58:6

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Vales and Valleys (a poem by Virginia)

vales and valleysVALES & VALLEYS

Oh heart, my Heart,
why are you so downcast within me?

Why so much despair?
Not caring, or sharing, the will
to walk the way ahead…

Into the valley of Shadows,
must I go?

Veiled, the vales lie deep before me
Sight hindered, darkness lingers
below the heights

Be still, my quaking heart
open up

…LISTEN FOR THE LIGHT…

Oh heart, my Heart,
Why are you so downcast within me?

Hear my cries, Oh Lord
MOST HOLY LIGHT

Shine bright

This night

Show me Your Way
in this valley of shadows

  (Virginia, 05 December 2012)

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,  I will fear no evil: for Thou art with me…”   (Psalm 23:4)

GC Snow valley…’The Lord is my Light & my Salvation;
whom shall I fear?
the Lord is the strength of my life;
of whom shall I be afraid?”
(Psalm 27:1)

grace, peace & (well-lit) valleys

Virginia

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Mary, Mary…

Madonna picToday we honor Mary (& I must dash before long, it’s one of those ‘try to get your tushi to church’ days; in more formal terms, a Holy Day of Obligation.)  Please check out this previous post written about Mary awhile back, as it’s rather what I wanted to say today (& I already said it, then!)   Click here to read the post: Mary, Mother of Jesus.

Here’s a quote for our minds to munch on today from one of my heroes:

“How much we can learn from Our Lady.  She was so humble because she was all for God.  She was full of grace and she made use of the almighty power that was in her – the grace of God.  The most beautiful part of Our Lady was that, when Jesus came into her life, immediately she went in haste to Elizabeth to give Jesus to her and her son.  And we read in the Gospel that the child ‘leapt with joy’ at this first contact with Christ.  Our Lady was the most wonderful wire.  She allowed God to fill her to the brim, so by her surrender, ‘be it unto me according to thy word,’ she became full of grace which she went to pass on to John.  So let us ask God to use us now to go round the world, especially in our own communities, and continue connecting the wires of the hearts of men to the current, Jesus.”      Mother Teresa (Blessed Teresa of Calcutta)

Madonna pic room (2)grace, peace & wires (on fire)

     Virginia : )

p.s. the painting above (acquired in Jerusalem) adorned the walls in my Bethlehem apartment & many places since, including my current room here (as pictured.)  The Madonna & Child (look carefully & see!)

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Wisdom, Wisdom…

So today @ church the William & Mary students received the ‘blessing of the brains’ before they hunker down into exams this week.  Fr. Glass used the following prayer from Saint Thomas Aquinas.  (It’s actually quite relevant for all of us – i ask God for wisdom daily, sometimes hourly!  : )

“Come, Holy Spirit, Divine Creator, true source of light and fountain of wisdom! Pour forth Your brilliance upon my dense intellect, dissipate the darkness which covers me, that of sin and of ignorance. Grant me a penetrating mind to understand, a retentive memory, method and ease in learning, the lucidity to comprehend, and abundant grace in expressing myself. Guide the beginning of my work, direct its progress, and bring it to successful completion. This I ask through Jesus Christ, true God and true man, living and reigning with You and the Father, forever and ever.  Amen.”

CCM windowgrace, peace & wisdom

Virginia

p.s. photo brought to you by Virginia’s new iPhone taken this morning of a CCM chapel window. Thought it was kinda cool – candle-light in the bright daylight.  : )

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Pink Martinis

I have never had a Pink Martini, but it sure sounds fun… & 60’s-ish.

And how exactly does a Pink Martini relate to Advent? to Christmas? Well, there’s this awesomely amazing music group called PINK MARTINI.  And guess what?  they have an awesomely excellent Christmas CD called JOY TO THE WORLD.

The story goes like this. Last Sunday nite as my Barnes & Noble coupon was about to expire (of course, online acquisitions are an option, but it’s oh so much more fun traipsing about the actual STORE!) I headed in to check out new Christmas music options.

Music is such a part of Christmas for me. We, ah, have many (100+) Christmas CDs, but you can never have too many.

This time I was looking for a world collection, kind of like Putumayo World Christmas compilations (already have several of theirs.) Couldn’t find anything new, but the cover of the Pink Martini Christmas CD caught my eye.

I remembered hearing a song of theirs on my brother Dwight’s jazz playlist (the 60’s-ish song was in Japanese, hard to forget.)  Thinking it would be all Santa-stuff, I looked at the song selection with surprise – lots of  great carols.

So, I took a wee chance after asking the helpful B&N staff member who said, “Pink Martini, how could you go wrong with a name like that? Sounds like a winner!”

He was OH, SO RIGHT.

What an AWESOME CD(~!~)  Sure, there are one or two fun holiday pieces, but mostly lovely carols in various languages (Ukranian, French, Chinese, Italian, German, Arabic), a Hebrew prayer and a poignant Italian prayer (“La Vergine Degli Angeli,”) plus the most unusual rendition of Auld Lang Syne, ever.

(Click here for a YouTube link to have listen. You don’t want to miss this, trust me! -it’s like the spiritual jumper cables of LBM’s  “Swing Low, Sweet Chariot” with a Hawaiian, international spin in 4 languages!  : )

http://youtu.be/Z-37NDoT6qI

When my (very) NICE NICE brother Dwight loaded the CD onto our iTouches (via his computer), he also downloaded Pink Martini’s newest compilation from iTunes called “Dream a Little Dream” done with Sofia, Melanie, Amanda, and August von Trapp, the great-grandchildren of Captain & Maria von Trapp (of Sound of Music fame!)

Another rad compilation.

For sure, there are a few 60’s time warp pieces (‘Dream a little Dream’, ‘Fernando’ et all) & a few from The Sound of Music (Edelweiss & the Lonely Goatherd) but these are interspersed among lovely, unusual international pieces in four-part harmonies – the first one, “Storm,” blew me away… and then there’s a haunting Rwandan melody (selected because the Von Trap grandchildren volunteered @ a Rwandan orphanage) along with Bavarian, French, Swedish & Chinese selections..

Inspirational music, all around!  And, for those Sound of Music fans out there, Charmian Carr, who played Liesl in the original Sound of Music makes a guest appearance.

Highly, HIGHLY recommend…

…Back to the Joy To The World CD —

Silent Night is such a favorite, familiar carol — the German version, too.  Pink Martini include a cover of the Arabic version as sung by the famous Lebanese singer, Fairouz.  The English translation provides a new spin on the words to contemplate:

  • “The night is flourishing
  • The voice of the holiday
  • The night is shining
  • Be excited o night with the clusters (of grapes)
  • Begin with sweetness and promises
  • Jesus visited the night!
  • Jesus emblazoned the night!”

Pink Martini

grace, peace & (awesomely amazing) Christmas music

Virginia : )

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Advent Illumination

BG French wreathIt’s late, so today here’s a picture to contemplate.  Advent is about letting the Light in (& out)… we see so many pretty lights everywhere.   As you’re out & about at night (or enjoying special lights about your home, like on Christmas trees ) take a moment to think about what having light in the darkness really means.

…try turning off your lights (all of them, including smart phones, iPads, laptops or anything that glows)… and then turn one light on & see what a difference it makes.

Illumination.

Light illuminates.

It also shows what needs a good cleaning.

Just ‘sayin, Advent is a good time to clean house (external & internal)…

You know, dust those hard to reach corners & empty out cluttered closets.

Maybe our minds are cluttered & need a going over…

Maybe our hearts, too.

Light of Christ, illuminate us …. that we may be Your light in the night of this world.

grace, peace & illumination(s)

    Virginia

“Arise & shine for the Light of the world is come…”  Isaiah 60:1

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Steelers up a Tree??

Mama & i decided that today we would put up the Christmas Tree.  In years past we made quite a production of it since Papa occupied the living room (where the tree goes.)  He & Mama enjoyed Christmas music blasting while i blasted about getting all the knick-knacks switched over & decorating THE TREE (a major artistic achievement!)  They always liked watching the ornament placement (& deliberation that ensured advantageous placement of best ones on the side where Papa could see them.. )

So this morning after a hearty breakfast @ Virginia’s Cafe (your humble blogger is still the chief cook & bottle washer in these parts : )  my brother Dwight brought down the boxes (lots) from the garage & then carefully carted in our Christmas Tree (that has brought holiday cheer for over 20 years.)  After a round of hot cider, he zoomed off to work while Mama & I rolled up our sleeves & set to it.

…Have to confess my eyes dripped a little while setting the tree up.  Remembering when we took everything down last January, Papa was still with us(!) My heart’s full – we had such a wonderful Christmas last year (& the year before & the year before that & the year before that one…)  So many special treats, including an annual caroling outing of 120+ youth groupers from my parents’ church who came en mass to sing.  Ok, a little off key & out of sync with the 25 or so seniors in the house singing one verse while the rest outside had a different groove on.. But, what a treat!

So, they are coming Sunday to sing for Mama (hence the need to get the tree up today!)  …& we are grateful.  New memories to mix with precious ones from the past.

Not to get maudlin, here’s a bit of Holy Hilarity from our tree (totally Papa!)

 FullSizeRender(1)grace, peace & Steelers (up a tree!)

Virginia : )

p.s.  Something to reflect upon (a little more Advent-ish)

Lives of great men all remind us
        We can make our lives sublime,
    And, departing, leave behind us
        Footprints on the sands of time…

Footprints, that perhaps another,
        Sailing o’er life’s solemn main,
    A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
        Seeing, shall take heart again.

    Let us, then, be up and doing,
        With a heart for any fate ;
    Still achieving, still pursuing,
        Learn to labor and to wait.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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