…trees in transition…

It’s no small feat for trees to remain green during drought.  That reality jumped me this morning while contemplating one of today’s Scripture readings:

“Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose hope is the LORD. He is like a tree planted beside the waters that stretches out its roots to the stream:  It fears not the heat when it comes, its leaves stay green; In the year of drought it shows no distress,  but still bears fruit.”  (Jeremiah 17:7-8)

First, note that ‘man’ in this context means universal human beings, women inclusive (International Women’s Day is March 8th!)  When we place our trust in God, we all (male & female inclusive) have the opportunity to soak up a little heat without burning out.

But drought requires big trust in God when all those streams dry out & it’s dry for miles around.

Dry is dry is dry.  I once documented water projects in drought-ridden regions while globetrotting for an international relief & development agency.  When existing wells dried up (very) expensive new wells had to be drilled incredibly deep to access water.

Sometimes we face spiritual droughts when our hearts seem full of dry bones (that rattle, brittle to the touch or bristle with gristle that’s hard to chew.)

Like wells in arid regions, we need to go deeper — by letting the Master driller close up dry wells & tap new wells deep within our hearts.  Heart drilling sounds a little painful, but sometimes that’s the only way God can get rid of the dry old musty stuff that’s messing up the sparkling streams of His love gushing to come out & water our dry bones.

Seasons of change may also cause our leaves to wither a bit with worry, especially as lush leaves fall off when God wants to change the fruit in our lives.  We wonder, ‘why God?- why me? why this? why now?’ when our branches try to circumvent the frying pan of tribulations, but end up in the fire.  (‘out of the frying pan & into the fire..’)

Transitions may be painful when God wants to take us from what might be good into something different that’s God’s best for us (that may not always be what we think is the best for us – until lots later when, eureka!, we realize God knows what’s what.)

Trees in transition may also look a little weird. Like the pic i took of this tree last spring in Gloucester, Virginia. A few buds are coming out, but it still looks pretty bare.

Gloucester Tree (2)Whether you are a fully blooming tree happily planted near lush streams, or a tree struggling to make it through drought times, or a tree in tribulation juggling the fiery frying pan, or a tree in transition weirding out with funky looking leaves…

Trust God… and don’t be afraid.

DO NOT BE AFRAID.

Whatever & wherever we are planted as trees, our source of water is the same: our Heavenly Creator Who makes waterfalls & streams flow (even in the desert) & gave His son, Jesus Christ, to die on a tree for us.   Let’s stretch our roots to reach the Heavenly love that flows in the deepest regions of our hearts.

grace, peace & drought-resistant trees

Virginia : )

p.s. if you want to learn about safe water access  click here for Virginia’s take on water and for Virginia’s ‘action’ water photographs click here: water water water

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…be still my soul…

This week we are missing Papa(!) We miss him for so many reasons – not just our daily interactions & the spiritual guidance he doled out regularly, but the way he wrote his love on our hearts by his effervescent presence in our lives.   On Sunday, March 8th, it will be one year since he passed into the Everlasting Arms of God…

We know that he is now pain-free for all eternity after valiantly bearing the cross of suffering from a debilitating illness that made him a bedfast quadriplegic for many years.  Yet he continued to give his all for God each day in every way, ministering to others even until his last few hours with us.

Today the words from the famous hymn, ‘Be Still My Soul’  (one of Papa favorites)  touched my heart.  May they touch yours on this Lenten Wednesday, too…

Be still, my soul: the Lord is on thy side.
Bear patiently the cross of grief or pain.
Leave to thy God to order and provide;
In every change, He faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul: thy best, thy heavenly Friend
Through thorny ways leads to a joyful end.

Be still, my soul: thy God doth undertake
To guide the future, as He has the past.
Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
Be still, my soul: the waves and winds still know
His voice Who ruled them while He dwelt below.

Be still, my soul: when dearest friends depart,
And all is darkened in the vale of tears,
Then shalt thou better know His love, His heart,
Who comes to soothe thy sorrow and thy fears.
Be still, my soul: thy Jesus can repay
From His own fullness all He takes away.

Be still, my soul: the hour is hastening on
When we shall be forever with the Lord.
When disappointment, grief and fear are gone,
Sorrow forgot, love’s purest joys restored.
Be still, my soul: when change and tears are past
All safe and blessèd we shall meet at last.

Be still, my soul: begin the song of praise
On earth, believing, to Thy Lord on high;
Acknowledge Him in all thy words and ways,
So shall He view thee with a well pleased eye.
Be still, my soul: the Sun of life divine
Through passing clouds shall but more brightly shine.

(Katharina von Schlegel, 1697-1768)

Newfoundland Gross Morne Lobster Cove with seagullgrace, peace & still waves

     Virginia

p.s. if you want to hear a great version of this song arranged by Paul Schwartz on one of his State of Grace compilations, click here for a YouTube listen…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gLCFVZIMv4

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…on having new eyes (joy-filled??)

Today has been (yet again!) bleak, dreary, and COLD – that damp kind of cold that permeates bones & makes misbehaving joints creak & ache.  Melting snowy landscapes outside look like oozing meringues…

snow melting st francis 03 03 15…whereupon it’s easy to fall into the blahs, blues and whatever doldrums drag our spirits down. down. down.   It’s Lent (& there’s no chocolate doldrums-buster available allowable at this time.)

So, on this dreary day, here’s a quote for our minds (& droopy spirits) to munch on:

“The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”  Marcel Proust

Altho a warm, sunny landscape would be a most welcome change, methinks more prayers are needed from this cracked clay pot for new eyes (of the spiritual variety) to capture joy… well, maybe not ‘capture’ but engage joy? Like moving into 5th gear in a car?  Or engaging hyper-drive in a spaceship? — to engage in a joy drive that skips out of the doldrums dimension & into the starry sky?

hmmmn.

…looking at things with new eyes (with a little help from my friends…)

stuffed eyes“Joy is the echo of God’s life in us.”   Blessed Columba Mormion O.S.B.

…Let’s engage God’s echo into an operational joy-drive to lift our hearts out of the dreary-day-doldrums (or dreary life doldrums – whatever!)

It’s a choice! A discipline!  … choosing joy.   (You can read my take on joy by clicking here -’twas written in Advent awhile back, but joy is joy is joy — is JOY.)

Just ‘sayin. Not always easy when our bodies (& hearts) ache, but with God’s help – joy is an option.

grace, peace & operational joy-drives

      Virginia : )

p.s. while reading a blog of Ignatius Press favorite 2014 book reviews awhile back, this made it into my journal (disclaimer – i actually like fruitcake!)

“I don’t understand fruitcake. Fruit, good. Cake, great.  Fruitcake, nasty crap.”

(from Food: A Love Story by Jim Gaffigan)

Just had to squeeze a little holy-hilarity into this post.  Joyful ending & all that (i’m still laughing – even though read this weeks ago!)

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quickie quote: starry nights!!

Since the last few posts covered lighting candles & dazzling Light, i read this quote today & found it relevant for our Lenten journeys…

“I’ve seen too many stars to let the darkness overwhelm me.”  Sr. Macrina Wiederkehr

We’ve all been through dark patches in our lives – but we need to look up to see the stars when everything is dark around us.

A challenge for this Monday in Lent…

grace, peace & starry skies

   Virginia  : )

vales and valleys(One of my favorite names for Jesus Christ: He is our Bright Morning Star…)

p.s.  Sister Macrina Wiederkehr is one of my long-time favorite spiritual writers.  You can check out her blog & links by clicking here…

macrina-underthesycamoretree.blogspot.com

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…transfiguring-ish glimpses of God

What does it mean to ‘be transfigured‘?  Dictionary definition goes something like this: to be transformed into something better, beautiful, ethereal … other-worldly.  Since transformation basically means the process of change, (hopefully for the better), transfiguration kicks change up to a whole new level.

And we are concerned about this today because? On this second Sunday of Lent our Gospel reading delved into the transfiguration of Jesus (Mark 9:2-10.)  Jesus took three of His disciples – Peter, James & John – up on a mountaintop where He ‘transfigured before them.’  His clothes turned dazzling white –and then highly venerated Old Testament prophets Elijah and Moses joined Him.

Peter was afraid (!) but immediately moved into worship mode by offering to build three tents (remember God dwelt in a tent for the wandering Israelites & Moses.) Before they could get started, they heard a voice saying, “This is My Beloved son.  Listen to Him.”

This morning Fr. James Glass highlighted the fact that Jesus clothes turned so white they dazzled the eyes. Just like the Ten Commandments, when Moses came down Mt. Sinai his face was so bright he had to cover it.

So, to, for us.  Fr. Glass said: “When the spirit of God is in you, the Light of God will shine through you.”   Big Lent challenge: how much are we letting the light of God shine in us?  Is the love of God so bright in our hearts it dazzles others with compassionate grace?

Tradition holds the Transfiguration happened on Mount Tabor.  Today i read a devotional account of a priest who visited Mt. Tabor & had a ‘mountain top experience’ spiritually (& literally) that stayed with him all his life.  My experience was also unforgettable – while driving the narrow way to the top, a crazy taxi driver almost ran us off the road.  I was mad & frazzled by the time we reached our destination (my boss in Jerusalem frequently told this fiery red head, “Virginia, go stand in front of the fan!”)

But on that visit to Mt. Tabor, i did take this picture.

Mt Tabor glory nearby (2)Kinda dazzling.  A reminder of God’s grandeur & transfiguring grace … that can change our ‘mads’ and ‘frazzles’ into peace & joy on the mountaintops and also in the valleys where everything seems dreary & gray.

Glimpses of God’s transfiguring glory are all around us – beautiful waterfalls, the Grand Canyon, waves crashing on the beach, trees in the moonlight… listening to music that transports our spirits.. seeing a baby’s face… witnessing joy in our loved ones faces (i remember my father’s face when, despite constant pain he suffered 24/7, we made him laugh – or he made us laugh!)

Just yesterday while dashing out for birthday errands, a bluebird crossed Rt.5 right in front of my car.  A BLUEBIRD on a snowy day… (we are bluebird groupies in this house!)

Back to transformation.  It’s great to let glimpses of God’s glory around us move our hearts in wonder & awe & gratitude.  We also need to “listen to Jesus” – to open our hearts to the transfiguring power of His love that changes us.  Radically.

Mad & frazzled? … but dazzled by Jesus Christ Who transfigures our hearts with love’s pure healing light.

Mt Tabor monument (2)

grace, peace & Transfiguring LIGHT

      Virginia : )

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…birthdays… birthdays : )

Today is my brother Dwight’s birthday. He is… a year older!!!  (Since i’m his big sister by 18 months, no need to divulge the years. Let’s just say we’re on the other side of 40.)

We are so grateful to God for the gift of Dwight’s life. Going back to the beginning (he thanked Mama this morning for her hard work bringing him into this world, while we decided Dad had the easy part.) Dwight’s life is rather miraculous.  He was actually born with a hole in his heart- the doctors told my parents he might not make it to 10.

Papa often recounted the story of what happened during one of Mama’s MCV hospitalizations (when he learned how dirty cloth diapers made it from the pail into nicely laundered piles in the drawers.)  Dwight & i both woke up with croup cough in the middle of the night, so Dr. Dewalt told Dad, “bring the little one in.”

Dwight was hospitalized several times as a child due to the doctors’ concern about his heart.  But the hole eventually closed up… & Dwight ended up helping take care of Papa for 13 years here in Williamsburg before he passed last March.

My brother is so humble… he is such an inspiration to me. He has a heart of gold. Solid. Ever since we were inseparable as children (‘two peas in the pod’) i always knew he had the biggest heart of anyone i know.  Steadfast … generous … talented & tenacious (he has two masters degrees from top universities)  … he has a zest for life & does joy all the time (he puns it up regularly.)  His infectious humor lifted us daily during Papa’s caregiving & continues to buoy Mama & me.

Life is a gift…. We often take it for granted, but birthdays provide an opportunity to be grateful (altho we could do grateful every day!) … & to celebrate. Yes, it’s Lent. We don’t focus so much on joy – but this whole season is about the love of God, which surely is something to be joyful about.

While baking this morning & listening to a little retro Peter, Paul & Mary on the playlist, i thought the lyrics from one of my favs -“Light One Candle”- are good words for Dwight & all of us today…

 Don’t let the light go out,
It’s lasted for so many years!
Don’t let the light go out!
Let it shine through our love and our tears!

Don’t let the light go out!
Don’t let the light go out!
Don’t let the light go out!

Since Virginia, your humble blogger, continues her role as chief cook & bottle washer in these parts — gotta dash to generate good eats for the celebration.  A Brazilian orange Birthday cake is already baked (!) but the timer’s going off to get the mains underway.

Papa and Dwight matchinggrace, peace & Birthdays

       Virginia : )

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reflective rejoicing…

My brother Dwight is off today (his birthday is tomorrow) so we’re getting ready to gad about town in celebratory activities.  Today’s quick thoughts revolve around the concept of rejoicing.  We’re so grateful for the gift of his life – it truly is something to rejoice about.

At my Aunt Ruth’s memorial service this week my brother Dean read one of her favorite passages (also a long-time fav of mine) from Philippians 4:4-7

“Rejoice in the Lord always, again I say, Rejoice.  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.  Do not be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” 

Aquarium turtle reflection (2)So amidst our Lenten journey, remember life is a gift.  Even as we fast & pray, let’s always remember to rejoice – because the Lord is indeed near to us, dear to us, ever-present in our hearts & minds & spirits.

grace, peace & joy

   Virginia : )

p.s. picture taken during last year’s celebratory visit to the Virginia Aquarium in Va. Beach – kinda cool, this turtle checking out his reflection in the tidal pool. Somehow it fits as we try enter into reflective mode & consider our lives as gifts ?  : )

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snow… snow… snow…

Last night (& well into the morning) Williamsburg was treated (again) to snow, 8 inches of it (last week students missed a whole week of school for 7 inches.)  Northerners think we southerners are snow wimps & wimpettes, but our cities & counties just don’t have enough resources for piles of snow.  Main roads get needed attention but our neighborhoods usually have to wait until higher temperatures thaw us out.

snow in FebMeanwhile the nice, white fluffy snow that wasn’t so bad for folks getting around today (if they had to) will totally freeze tonight when temps drop into the teens ( -8 ish Celsius.)

02 26 snowy goldfinchThe snow is beautiful to view (as long as it doesn’t freeze our birdies, like this goldfinch who is munching his breakfast. My brother has loaded the birdfeeders 4 or five times the past week!)

02 26 snowy treeAnd looks lovely on the trees…

02 26 downed treeBut not so nice on tree branches that FALL, like this one that fell today. Thankfully, (God is merciful) not on our house, just on the heat pump –  that is, of course, something very necessary when temperatures are so very cold.

The helpful heating & air folks will address the challenge (as they triage emergencies to get to us) but we have nice warm heat from our back-up system, which is a blessing. We are not complaining… especially given past experiences with hurricane-downed trees. (You can read about facing  Stormy Weather by clicking here…)

Again (as with the last downed tree) our neighbor, Tim Hogan, came to the rescue. (We call him ‘Tool-Time-Tim” ’cause he has a fully loaded tool room stocked with things like a spiffy chainsaw. : )

We are so grateful to Tim for helping us & to Laurin, his wife, for always ‘being there.’   When we came home from the hospital last year just after Papa passed, Tim & Laurin met us with hugs, and then later brought over dinner.  We will never forget their acts of compassion then… & now with handy chainsaws.

Compassion (yes, there is a Lenten application to this post!) — is the act of ‘being with’ especially those who are suffering.

“Compassion asks us to go where it hurts, to enter into the places of pain, to share in brokenness, fear, confusion, and anguish. Compassion challenges us to cry out with those in misery, to mourn with those who are lonely, to weep with those in tears. Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.”  Henri Nouwen

Be compassionate just as your Heavenly Father is compassionate…” (Luke 6:36 )

02 26 Snowy fountainSomething to think about today as we snuggle to stay warm!

grace, peace & snowy compassion

     Virginia

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Inspiring Aunties & Inspired Word(s)

Today I was blessed to attend my Aunt Ruth’s memorial service in Richmond.  She lived a life full of love and faith that will continue to inspire her family and all of us for many years to come.  She influenced my Papa in many ways.  After their mother died when he was only 14, Aunt Ruth and her sister, Helen, came back home to help raise the younger children (Papa was one of 11 siblings!)  From Woodward family stories, my Papa was a real rascal before he came to faith at the age of 18.  Aunt Ruth had her hands full! But she was generous with love, encouragement & support she invested in Papa & his younger brothers & sisters — and their children, as my cousins Jamie and Brian (who both flew in from Colorado) shared so poignantly of her role in their lives.

Aunt Ruth’s legacy of love continues through her three daughters – Jann, Melanie and Jill. (I am always so grateful to Jill for saving my life when she jumped in to save this 5-year-old red head drowning in the deep end of their pool in Pennsylvania!!)… and through her beloved grandchildren & great-grandchildren.

What a precious time of sharing – lots of tears from my cousins & their children as they remembered their beautiful mom and grandmother. But joy also permeated the gathering as we remembered the beauty of her life – both inside & out.

Faith anchored Aunt Ruth – through good times and bad.  She loved the Scriptures. She read her Bible every day, constantly searching for new truths – she had seven different translations to better understand God’s Word.  She filled numerous journals with insights she gleaned about Jesus from her special times in the Scriptures.  These last few years, when her mind clouded into the mists of dementia, she would read these journals & say, ‘this is really good, who wrote it?”  Even as she forgot many things, she still read the Scriptures every day.

My big brother, Pastor Dean, shared five or six of Aunt Ruth’s favorite Scriptures as he led the service today.  He said it was hard to select them, since she had highlighted so many in her seven Bibles!

So today for Lent- in honor of Aunt Ruth & her love for the Scriptures – I got to thinking, what are my favorite Scriptures?  Like Aunt Ruth, I have many favorites – but as life verses I would have to choose Psalm 27: 1 & 4..

“The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?  The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?  One thing have I desired of the Lord, and that I will seek after:  that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the Lord and to inquire in His temple.”

…and then here’s another favorite to comfort hurting hearts as Aunt Ruth is missed.  But God has called her by her precious name.. she is His… & is in His presence now.

“But now, thus says the Lord, He who created you O Jacob, and formed you, O Israel: Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; You are mine.  When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you.  When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.  For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.”  Isaiah 43:1-3

  • In MemoriamAugust ressurrection liliesNaomi “Ruth” Woodward Lyons
  • (January 29, 1924 – February 11, 2015)

grace, peace & inspiring aunties

       Virginia

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cloudy day Faith

And ‘snow’ it begins … AGAIN!  As the clouds rolled in this afternoon, a few microscopic flakes turned into a steady snowfall with a blast of icy rain this evening.  More snow on the 4 inches still remaining in our yard from last week… and it’s brrrr COLD!

As more storm clouds gather, here’s a thought from one of my favorite devotional books: Daily Strength for Daily Needs.

I cannot feel

That all is well, when darkening clouds conceal

The shining sun;

But then, I know

He lives and loves; and say, since it is so,

Thy will be done.” 

S. G. Browning

Perky flowers Maymont (2)As more cloudy COLD gray days hide the sun, remember God’s vibrant love lives behind even the darkest cloud.  May we have the faith no matter the weather this day to say:

  “Thy will be done…”

grace, peace & cloudy day faith

 Virginia

p.s. just had to share this pic today as a reminder of God’s vibrant WARM love (re: what His sunshine generates in the summer! : )

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